Okay so..I've put an end to my having random sex all the time about 6 months ago, and have never even really asked a girl out or been on a date, until yesterday.

I ate alone at a fancy Chinese restaurant and had a cute waitress serving me, now, she wasn't a supermodel but she was pretty to me, a little overweight. She messed up my order and felt bad, but I was interested and she had told me her name. So, when she gave me the bill, I called her by name and said, "Hey, Marissa right? Are you available, because I am." Her face lit up and got red and she lost her breath and said "Oh my GOD no! But thank you!" Then I put my card in the ticket and she came back and said, "I have a name for you!" We were laughing and she said, "I'm calling you, 'The Brave One'" so we started laughing and then when I looked at my receipt she wrote "Thank you" in pretty letters with an exclamation point with a heart on it and smiley face. She was so happy after that and all smiles.

I gotta admit, this is the first time I've looked for anything more than a slut for a quick fling, but it felt good to make her day!

So, does anybody have the key to getting a good-hearted partner instead of just a slut? AND YES LADIES, I too used to be a slut it works both ways!

doesn't matter if she is a supermodel or has a perfect body
what matters is you find her attractive
maybe she has a bubbly and fun personality
I am glad to hear you have reached a turning point in your life
where you are now looking for a relationship
with someone real instead of just random sex with whoever might say yes

This morning is one for the record books. It just keeps coming. A freight train of WTF's.

Choo. Choo.

women love sincere compliments sounds like you gave her one. nice job!

you are off to a great start jaman. the biggest best advise is using the 2 things plastered to the side of your head much more aggressively really really listen when you talk with the ladies.

after that watch real careful for their eyes glazing over when you start talking cars

A "key?"

So basically "I went with sluts because it was an easy way to get what I wanted, and I liked being easy...can you tell me an easy way to get something not easy and more fulfilling, because I don't want to be perceived that way any more?"

If you're looking for a "key," you're still looking for a "slut."

Someone with a keyhole you can quickly insert something, and just open her up.

Sorry, start knocking on doors.

Thanks to everybody exept tiretom. Was asking for the key to a good relationsip, not to the pants.

And now.....TAPS begins to play......

Sticking with being a good hearted partner and not a sex addict.

Sounds like you made a couple of steps in the right direction. ^5

all I want to know! Is what's wrong with being a Slut..