how do i work this ti edit the guys that can inbox me because i like white guys

There is no such option but I like the way you think. Place that in the suggestion box.

PLEASE NOTE: Mail filters apply only to the FIRST message sent between two parties. Once you've sent a message to someone, they can send mail back to you regardless of whether they meet your filter conditions. You can still block those users individually if you wish.

Users who want to contact you MUST be:

Gender:
Age: to and live within:

of me

Block users looking for an intimate encounter
Block users who are married
Block users who smoke
Block users who drink


yeah not an option : (

good idea though

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