I think igor meant that the man wasn't really rude to warrant what you said about his face looking like a dog's azz.

that's all annie, don't worry.

In the gym I go to its normal to ask people how they are.
He didn't ask me out he asked if I was chatting him up which in my understanding he thought high of himself.
Looks had nothing to do with it
Like i said he thought high of himself and therefore my mouth went into action before the brain had time to think.
Why should I choose good looking people to talk to when in my eyes everyone is
I refuse to put people in categories because I hate judging.

Thanks. Debbie

Hey, Daddy, the next time you tick me off, I am going to tell you that your face looks like Milo's azz.

I am not from America thank you for thinking I was, a great compliment
I am from New Zealand and proud of my home
New Zealand is on the east side of Australia. In the pacific ocean

that's not good with what's been coming out of milo's azz.

he's been eating in the garden

Donald Trump was right, there's too much politically correct bull chit in this world.
If I wanted to call someone ugly I would.

This does sound like a typical guy, a Lady says hello and his dick overtakes his brain, so yeah, sounds kinda ugly to me.

Oh my that was funny Debbie and Iam

I like the puppy milo I can keep a straight face looking at him.
I still blush with shame looking at the doc.

He didn't mean American as a compliment.

I will receive it as a compliment.

This is priceless... As a gym goer... I am amazed at the little snots that have to start pumping iron and just to get the girls to watch them..
I have to not snicker to loud when all of the sudden they are in pain..because they didn't know what they were doing...

I helped a guy out a month or so ago in the produce section he was mangling the avocado's so as I was sorting some out for me. I asked if he was using it that evening..he said yes... I handed him a couple..
then by the time I get to the salad greens he is hitting on me.. I was like go away....

maybe the mangling of the avocado's "did it for him"

that is one thing I was afraid of

Gym and food keep them away from the men
Don't talk to men when dealing with them

I under that now.

Of what?
Why men should never talk to women in public, or ever, that they should just sit quietly, have no confidence in themselves, have no esteem, until a woman comes up and clearly states her intentions and desires, possibly with an armed escort and notary?
Why developing communication in relationships is so important because it completely fails in the beginning?


Great.

Look at how much you've spent explaining who you are, what your intentions were, what you meant, and how he was supposed to behave.

And what did he get to base his interaction with you?
Did he get any of this "in my eyes...I am a...I say...I was wanting...?"
He got:

If someone sent those questions in their first emails, what would you do?
Would you ever wonder why they were emailing you and possibly ask their intentions?
If you were attracted to the profile of someone that sent those in an email and it seemed they weren't interested at all, would you try and expand the conversation, to keep it going to something more?

I've noticed there is a time you can take what you want,and a time you take what you can get..

With all due respect sir..and I meant each word especially respect because I do read your posts
and I find them thought provoking..and to the point..

GRUDGING RESPECT FOR THIS COMMENT BUT -

aint you going too far on this.. for Miss Annie Sir?

If what happened to Miss Annie happened actually "online" then I say your comment is warranted and justified.


If it is how the way she told the story, we have to make allowances to individual's literary grasp and how they express it..

how deep is their vocabulary and how well they can express it in writing..of what they actually experience..
(im talking about the way she expresses opinion on posts)..



But this happened in a gym Sir.


Face to face. You look at each other. You can see the person straight in the eyes and judge his intentions based on that. Gut feeling an all. You see the nuances in expressions. You feel what was not said in words.

If Miss Annie said she was being hit on "inappropriately" just by being her usual nice self. Then thats it.She is entitled of what she feels.

She is in Mingle right? with us.. that means she wants someone..if the guy had been at least friendly and polite towards Miss Annie, instead of letting her feel that a "did you have a good day" means she is "chatting her up".. then Miss Annie would not have reacted that way.

Those are the words of the guy. "Chatting me up" - in urban dictionary it means - To speak to someone with the intent of eventually engaging in sexual intercourse with them. Generally conducted in a relaxed, playful and outstandingly obvious manner.

Operative words - intent of eventually engaging. obvious manner..


We women preferred to be ask out in a polite manner..wherever we are in the world.



I am thousands of miles away from you Sir.but in this corner of the world where I am in:


You men would know when we women like you Sir.. that is an age old dance..

You men would know when we want to just hold hands.. and savor the moment, we proactively reach out..

You men would know when we wanted to be held..we just hug you from behind and let our hands say what we cant find the words to speak..


But until both know what each other clearly wanted ..and expectations are set properly

..we at least can ask you to treat us politely until we give you reasons enough to treat us otherwise..


just saying

With all due respect sir..and I meant each word especially respect because I do read your posts
and I find them thought provoking..and to the point..

GRUDGING RESPECT FOR THIS COMMENT BUT -

aint you going too far on this.. for Miss Annie Sir?

If what happened to Miss Annie happened actually "online" then I say your comment is warranted and justified.


If it is how the way she told the story, we have to make allowances to individual's literary grasp and how they express it..

how deep is their vocabulary and how well they can express it in writing..of what they actually experience..
(im talking about the way she expresses opinion on posts)..



But this happened in a gym Sir.


Face to face. You look at each other. You can see the person straight in the eyes and judge his intentions based on that. Gut feeling an all. You see the nuances in expressions. You feel what was not said in words.

If Miss Annie said she was being hit on "inappropriately" just by being her usual nice self. Then thats it.She is entitled of what she feels.

She is in Mingle right? with us.. that means she wants someone..if the guy had been at least friendly and polite towards Miss Annie, instead of letting her feel that a "did you have a good day" means she is "chatting her up".. then Miss Annie would not have reacted that way.

Those are the words of the guy. "Chatting me up" - in urban dictionary it means - To speak to someone with the intent of eventually engaging in sexual intercourse with them. Generally conducted in a relaxed, playful and outstandingly obvious manner.

Operative words - intent of eventually engaging. obvious manner..


We women preferred to be ask out in a polite manner..wherever we are in the world.



I am thousands of miles away from you Sir.but in this corner of the world where I am in:


You men would know when we women like you Sir.. that is an age old dance..

You men would know when we want to just hold hands.. and savor the moment, we proactively reach out..

You men would know when we wanted to be held..we just hug you from behind and let our hands say what we cant find the words to speak..


But until both know what each other clearly wanted ..and expectations are set properly

..we at least can ask you to treat us politely until we give you reasons enough to treat us otherwise..


just sayingbigsmile

Chronicliar
Thank you I agree with what you have said

Ciretom
Thank you for your thoughts
It has give me food to think about

Wow I would not expect asking if someone was "chatting me up" was suggesting I wanted to have sex with them.

I do think tone and inflection even body language would say a lot about his question.

But your comments could have been that of a Gym manager or a peer that was "flirting" and it seemed like and innocent enough question.

In a world of "political correctness" and all kinds of varying etiquette for various situations seems like an innocent enough question and what I would consider a "ball-buster " response. Pretty much can guarantee no other guy in the gym will ever "chat" with you again and certainly not attempt to flirt with you.