...I want to know ....is that true love is thair ...or its only time being bcs when some one with me in a relationship then they talk like I believe you and all but when they don't like us then ....thaye never consider like atlst human being why????

I'm not sure I understand the question.

Are you asking:

"Did they ever really love me? When I've been in relationships they speak to me with respect, and love, like they believe me, but after some time or they fall out of love they stop treating me like a human being, try to hurt me with their words, can someone that truly loves you go to hating you, really?"

Or

"Why do people go from being considerate in the beginning to taking me for granted, does that mean they never truly loved me?"