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They are scarred and scared. There are just as many who will marry again and they have married again.
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If a person is developing feelings for someone, it is very cowardly not to take the next step and to deny both parties a chance at true love, which comes along once in forever. what Maia said isn't a novel or a fairytale, its very real if you give it the chance and let go of fear. |
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scared or just realistic a fine line perhaps..But this is for another topic I suppose... now I must be off I need to go break off a relationship it is getting far too serious for me lol.. God all that touchy feely stuff I love you I want you I need you.. to sugary sweet for this guy lol just kidding.. too long to ache for your lovers touch is truly a gift to behold
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They are scarred and scared. There are just as many who will marry again and they have married again. those who marry again have let go of fear, and have restored their faith in love. its the only way to go if you truly want love in your life again. |
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I married because I was young dumb and full of c**
You weren't that young. You were nearly 30, a grown man. And what's scary is that I know all this about you.    
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I don't understand either it's hard to find that special loving person to settle down I just don't really understand
 I'm trying to also find the samething
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I married because I was young dumb and full of c**.. and she had lots of money lol JK.. ask yourself this a lot of people that were married and now divorce say they will never marry again why is that |
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perhaps at the beginning he was searching a physical relationship.. But the more he saw you the more his feelings developed for you.. And realizing what a beautiful and nice person you truly are.. And knowing he was just in it for something physical.. now wants to break things off.. Because he knows the end game is only going to hurt you even more than it does now.. it is hard to disconnect the heart from the physical sometime.. Even though at the beginning you think it is possible.. But somewhere along the line your heart takes over.. and when this happens you realize you must now do the right thing.. as painful as it might be to say goodbye now before things get too serious.. It is better now then later.. and now he checks up on you because he feels guilty even beginning a relationship he could not finish.. but hey what do I know I'm a heartless bastard lol I have posted many times that casual physical relationships are like playing with fire because feelings develop and someone inevitably gets hurt. |
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He says I'm a nice person with a good heart, loving and understanding but he wants to break up because he doesn't want to hurt me since he is not ready to settle down. He still wants to friends and he keeps calling to check up on me. I don't understand! In simpler terms it means you were not a good lay as he initially thought...& if you both continued he might end up cheating or whatever coz that special bond aint really there...but you could be friends so maybe one day when he's drunk & horny he could call you & use you physically & emotionally for his gains....or you could interpret it in other ways.... ...i am not like that in anyway but i've given you a realist opinion 
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Edited by
lu_rosemary
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Fri 08/07/15 02:50 PM
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fear then, from commitment, from losing control, from losing your freedom, from possibility of failure or selfcentrism - you are good but not enough for me, still I don�t want to lose you because I know you are good. Still I feel fear in that thank you 
Chica, i like your statement. I have missed you. How have you been? Think of it as a fresh new start no matter how fearful it is, allow yourself to love and be loved. Yes, take time, be wise and re-consider the possibility to believe in new beginnings. Once you've experienced the fear, the failure, even losing control over the situation it self, I believe , the experience you've been through it will make you stronger and wiser this time and you'll know what to do next time. Maybe not right away, maybe not for the next six months but for sure some day the sun will shine again. Let someone love you, just the way you are. |
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perhaps at the beginning he was searching a physical relationship.. But the more he saw you the more his feelings developed for you.. And realizing what a beautiful and nice person you truly are.. And knowing he was just in it for something physical.. now wants to break things off.. Because he knows the end game is only going to hurt you even more than it does now.. it is hard to disconnect the heart from the physical sometime.. Even though at the beginning you think it is possible.. But somewhere along the line your heart takes over.. and when this happens you realize you must now do the right thing.. as painful as it might be to say goodbye now before things get too serious.. It is better now then later.. and now he checks up on you because he feels guilty even beginning a relationship he could not finish.. but hey what do I know I'm a heartless bastard lol [/quote @no.1 " but somewhere along the line the heart takes over"... one of your most beautiful statement I've read so far. good advice as well. good or bad the heart can take it.... |
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Yeah. He actually told me that he didn't know he would fall in love with me but then he found himself falling in love and he is his not yet ready to get into a committed relationship since he still has a lot to achieve before he finally settles down and that he doesn't want to keep me waiting for him.
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Yeah. He actually told me that he didn't know he would fall in love with me but then he found himself falling in love and he is his not yet ready to get into a committed relationship since he still has a lot to achieve before he finally settles down and that he doesn't want to keep me waiting for him. So i guess your seduction worked a lil....then wore off. We can't win em all i guess
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@romeo, u can be as sarcastic as u want but the point is, u don't know me and ur opinion of me doesn't count.
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Yeah. He actually told me that he didn't know he would fall in love with me but then he found himself falling in love and he is his not yet ready to get into a committed relationship since he still has a lot to achieve before he finally settles down and that he doesn't want to keep me waiting for him. Yeah, I've heard this line too. Could have been cribbed directly from a book about "how to dump someone who's getting too serious about you, while making it appear that it's YOU who are making the real sacrifice." I think it was required reading in the course "Slick Operator 101." Whether he even THINKS he's sincere or not doesn't really matter though. Whether he's just a player, or he's a sincere innocent who isn't ready for a real relationship doesn't functionally matter. The two of you are done. Any further investment of your time or emotions will bring you nothing. That's what he's formally explained to you. |
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if he don't want t hert you ...then he will settled and then said I'm with u not like this ....like we will friends .....this is my opinion ha...friend
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yeah. Thanks y'all for being so sincere with me. I now understand.
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yeah. Thanks y'all for being so sincere with me. I now understand. (((Judytee))) May you be blessed.
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