I just want some avrage girls,age does not matter to look and tell me what Im doing wrong...I email a ton of people all most every day and maby 1-2 will respond. Not complaining, I just want to know whats missing....Thanks

Well, you look kind of sad in your picture. Maybe try smiling at the world! Someone might just smile back your way!

Patience...

Rome was'nt built in a day...



Welcome to JSH...

Hello Joe,

You have very cute 'puppy-dog' eyes but as Mry said, maybe if you smiled in your picture, you will be a knock-out!!

Hope it helps!!

it looks like you took your picture in the prison bathroom...but you are cute

This is what worked for me:

1. Post 5000 times

2. Sit back and wait for people to e-mail you

That's what I did, and it actually worked. I really do get lots of e-mail here. I don't understand it, either, but there you go.

HOWEVER, there's a disclaimer -- If I e-mail anyone FIRST, they won't reply, unless they are more than 897,000 miles away. And only people 897,000 miles away or farther will write to me first. So, as soon as I get myself one of them there teleportation thingies, I will be swimming in dates!

Seriously, I think you have to establish a presence in the forums here. That's how people get to know you.

AHA! That's It. Lex! They know you! You have posted too much!

WELL IM NOT SAD, CONFUSED A BIT ABOUT THE ON LINE THING BUT NOT SAD. JUST A FEW HELLOS ARE ABOUT ALL I GET IN RESPONCE..IM THINKING IT HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH THE FACT THAT I HAVE PICTURES OF MY KIDS ON HERE...IT MAKES WOMEN RUN JUST LIKE SOME GUYS..

well joe if they run from kid pics then you have filtered out uncompatible peeps already..

S1ow, you're right, I have overexposed myself! Wait, weren't we talking about this on the "dead horse" thread? I need some new material. And a horse that can move.

Joe, I don't know about the kids thing, it seems to me (although I've never really done a formal study) that the vast majority of the women here have kids themselves, and I have seen a lot of profiles where they say they are attracted to guys with kids. Honestly, I think the biggest part of your dilemma here is that you've only posted a few times. People need to get to know you, and the best way for that to happen is if you participate in the forums.

yea.. change your pic.. it looks ok. but you do have the puppy dog look going on. Look happy.. this is a first impression.

I WOULD LOVE TO GET INVOLVED WITH THE FORUMS, TELL ME MORE ABOUT IT..

OK THE SAD PICTURE IS DOWN, THANKS FOR ALL THE FEED BACK..

Okay...that picture is better....we didn't mean to say that you were sad, just that you looked "emo" sad in that pic.


Your kids are adorable, I don't think many womaen will run from them!!

The threads are just like this....and you can join in at any time and will be welcomed to the conversation!

duh.....I can spell... women

I think you should shave your head...

Maybe you have to throw in some cookies or piece of cake and they will come by the ton too. Good Luck mate!

throw in some babyback ribs....i am to old to do it for a mere piece of cake

Don't listen to Gypsy.... don't shave your head!! Maybe a new style....

ribs are so messy though.......