All I come across r men in the Army, I just want to date meet for coffee. How can I do that when the guys r either deployed or in another city? Help

you have to run in to a lot of thorns before you find the rose : )

best wishes on your hunt

Scammers pretend to be in the Army.

By the way, you can set your mail filter so that you receive private messages only from people who live near you.

From where I sit in the DC area, most women don't check their accounts for more than a month. It seems they've come, seen, and have moved on.

With the exception of one member, all I've gotten since I've signed on are fake people trying to scam me.

It's not just this website either. It's all of them including match, chemistry, craigslist, plenty of fish, etc.

I've written two women that were local and were online but was ignored. Disappointed? Meh? It's the same old same old.

I'll give it another week and then close it out.

Impatience gets you nowhere.