24 trying to find the right girl wondering if I should date older women? Maybe they'll be better than girls my age

lol
best wishes with that

its not the age that matters so much as the person

the are crazy older lady's just like there are crazy young lady's
just like there are crazy guys as well as none crazy guys
<shrug>

keep trying, hope for the best, gud luck

Date whoever you are attracted to as long as it won't get you landed in jail.


You understand that "older women" were your age at one point in time?
That a part of them is absolutely no different than the women your age now?
That they aren't a subspecies of people that are totally different, wondrous, and new?

Yeah I guess y'all are right. I'm new to this but have any of y'all had luck meeting women here?

Yeah I guess y'all are right. I'm new to this but have any of y'all had luck meeting women here?

Good luck on your search!

Just have more patience and you'll find what you are truly looking for :)

And always keep in mind that "Age is just a matter of number".

Yeah your right thanks

Yeah, right. "Age is just a number." That's really a nice thought in one way, but it's complete batcrap BS in other ways.

Main thing to watch out for, OP: magical thinking.

Magical thinking is any time that you can't actually work out how something might work in practical detail, and just leap to the conclusion that it would be "like, ruhlly keoool, me-ahn."

As to older women for example, the myth of the wild Cougar hypnotizes some young men into chasing older women, expecting better results than they get from chasing the younger ones.

But bottom line, if you aren't thinking of who you are after as being a human being, every bit your equal in every way, things wont work for you.

Nuts is nuts, at any age, and objectification is objectification at any age.

Just make sure whatever you do, that YOU are being real.