hmmm..... mean or icy???

yeah... right~!


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Sorry I flunked the mean test...

I don't think I am mean...I do have an opinion and it is very strong. I think my ex would say that he made a huge mistake by letting me walk away.
I know his family was very upset when we split. When his mother was very sick she told him that he needed to get "the best thing that ever happened to him back in his life" Would I ever take him back? NOOO....I only look forward and never look back, they are an ex for a reason.
I try to be nice and respectful to everyone

Hey BR77R.....did you give up on your thread?

i'm neither; i also failed the mean test
but, if i have to i can stand up for what i believe in

no no no not me

people walk all over me,but do something to my kids and you better run

has nothing to do with being mean i suppose - motherly/fatherly instinct that is...

Ok. then I don't have a mean bone in my body

Mean, Icy, or Bossy? Wow that sounds more like a reaction than an action with me.
I usually give people what they dish out.
If it is positive, considerate, hospitable,generaous, fair, humorous, or other good things I tend to be cautious but reciprocate equally or maybe just a little bit more. I like to reward positive people.
If it is negative, whineing, nervous, obnoxious, or just depressing I tend to give a minimum of grace but maybe a little icy. I feel like I have tolerated my quota of all that.
If they are demanding, dictatorial, agressive, bigoted, bully people just because they can get away with it, or "pot stirrers= cowards" then I can probably do a little MEAN.
Bossy, that is a tough one. In a reciprocal relationship NOPE. Someone who is weak and tolerates being bossed around wouldn't hold my attention in a personal realationship.
However; if someone wants to attach themselves to me and leach off my success, strength, and responsibility then I am probably going to be VVVVVVVVVEEEEEEERRRRRYYY bossy. It will be my way or the highway. I can be a benevolent boss and let people mutually succeed but someone who wants to be a hard head and do it their way and drag me down, waist my time, repeat what has not already not worked Bossy will probably be the nicest thing they can say about me. lol

I agree with pacific, you get what you give

i also agree with that,how bout you fresh?
lol

Why you wanna bring me back into island? LMAO....I already did a fly by on my broom....

im neither..at least i hope i aint

lol,can i take ur broom for a spin hun?
lol

Nope....it's fueled with estrogen....

I would say I am a pretty assertive person, but some people take that as being mean, I have my heart in the right place and treat others with the upmost respect, But I am not afraid to talk about my feelings when needed, I think a lot of people have a poor self esteem and when you are honest and open about somethings they take it as a personal attack and think you are mean and icy!

wow,so um,how can i get me some of that stuff????
lol,j/k

the truth hurts