Hire a gigolo and get laid...next morning you are a new women.

OK heres something better...why don't you hang out with you friends, get a new job,take up some new hobbies ...wait you telling me that he was your only friend and hobby NO WAY! his new girlfriend is your boss and you can't find new jobs because of your criminal record ..HEY you ever think about joining the Army!

Thank you all for your words of encouragement and advice. I know time heals all things but it just hurts right now.

If you were married, try to mend it, if possible.

If you weren't married spend time healing and DO NOT JUMP into another relationship until you've had a chance to forgive the other person and yourself.

Don't blame yourself because no-one, no-one is perfect. What flaws you have, the other person has their own too.

Seek GOD because he can fill the void. In fact maybe it happened because you need to find GOD.

You broke up with him. So come back here in four days and let us know how you are doing. I say this because it normally takes four days for the one who executed the break up to be over doing it.

We always have trouble trying to forget our ex. Just try to block him from your mind. Easier said than done. One minute at a time. If he enters any of your dreams, again, block all thoughts of him. You have to remain determined to never remember him. It's a bit more difficult if you have the same friends. Just keep remembering why the relationship ended.

I thought it was one weekend...

Like they said, at least you weren't married. I was and just divorced after 6 years. The emotion ended a couple of years ago, but the financial hurt she caused will stick with me for another 5 years. Hard not to be bitter, when you're driving a 93 corolla and she has the vette and hummer.

Hey....in 2016 we are gonna make it one week. Whiny azz people say they need more time.

When I break up with a whiner, I'm over it before I pull the plug...

That's so hot.

http://youtu.be/aLnZ1NQm2uk

being singularly strange, I think about him and remember the good times...sometimes we even talk now and then....and eventually it all just fades away and I'm over him. kind of like having too much of a favorite food or something. I really have not had much problem with that after all we would not have broken up if we were supposed to be together. So it's like seeing an old friend now and then.

sometimes breaking all contact is a good idea too at least for a little while...few days, months, depends on if he hassles you, ya, ya gotta raise the wall

I usually smoke a cigarette

Hello first to let you know that I�m a man so my opinion could sounds easy to you cause that,like to be honest.Don�t know what happend and sometimes after giving each other a certain space things can go back to normal and after all you bouth can save a relationship.If this is not the case and you are sure that is over the best to get over it,because we now that it herts a lot is to go out spend time with friends and try to meet new people,like they say one nail will push away the other one.It could be an easy solution or not.I don�t know the reasons for the broke up of the relation,you know it so you have to think about if it is worth it to give it a second chance before throughing everything away.You should know that most of the times guys act stupet and don�t think about what we are about to loose cause of a stupit action.that�s all I can say

Eat a whole container of Ben & Jerry's Chunky Monkey. At once. All of it.

Ooooo I like to rant and rave
pace back and forth
listing off all the many ways
he f*cked up
all the times I warned him of it
how I am right and know I.am right and pissed I gave him more than one chance to become a better man and he blew it

Oh yes. Do tell us more.