Is it possible? Or will girls get bored? I only wish to use sex for it's intended purpose, and I don't want to have a child yet. Will a relationship be able to keep without sex? (Advice from a girl would be best)

In my very personal opinion that is not going to work out. Unless you meet a girl who shares those same beliefs... The rest of the women consider sex as part of being in a relationship... It brings you closer to your partner. It complements your relationship...

Any way, you should discuss it with your partner to prevent any misunderstandings...

Theres nothing wrong with being Asexual as long as you both feel the same, just be upfront about it

The original / intended purpose of sex, IS to have children. js

Good luck

Is everything fine with you?

Having a chaste relationship is more difficult than it used to be but not impossible. I still think virginity is valued by many; even younger women of today. Maybe not so much that they broadcast it because of peer pressure but still valued.

Not so much if it is just a superiority thing but and honest effort to make it as a gift in traditional marriage.

Since there are a range of definitions of virginity/sexual contact it might be difficult to avoid all sexual contact in American culture. Kissing and touching is generally excused as acceptable and still being considered a virgin.

I disagree that intercourse is absolutely necessary for bringing closeness in a relationship. Even for someone who is mature enough to have had a previous partner but lost them. It is certainly a choice but not a necessity.

It can, especially for younger people, who have more intense feelings with out the maturity and foresight to avoid complicated situations cause stress and feelings of rejection. Good communication skills would be needed for ad extended relationship that was totally void of sexual contact of any kind.

I was a virgin when I first married as a teen but I am not sure I recommend teen marriage as a solution to virginity. lol

In my opinion, sex is a big part of a relationship. That intimacy you get with your partner is the only thing that differentiates your relationship with them from the ones you have with your family and friends.
And sex is amazing :)

First of all, sex does not necessarily mean penetration...When two people are in love and living together, physical intimacy becomes an important part of the relationship because it is a natural expression of love...Bathing together, massaging each other, kissing, fondling and holding each other can all be sexually satisfying...Women need to know they are desirable both physically and emotionally...Express yourself...

Very well stated!

Sure... if you find someone who feels the same way you do.
Ill set ya up with my ex-wife, if ya want.....ya'll will get along great

Well it's good that u want to hear from gals,,, but if in case u r afraid of sex issues belonging to u, write me personally I can help in that

Well the good Lord blessed me with a high sex drive so it wouldn't work for me. But for some it is possible.

Actually I don't think it is about sex drive because if that were the case I would not want sex daily when I am in a relationship but can and have managed long periods with out. Hopefully the "without " will be ending soon. lol

Sex is not the only thing, and certainly is not the most important. But I believe it is part of the glue that bonds a relationship, along with communication, understanding, patience (which I have none of), tolerance. From a religious standpoint however, certainly in my faith, Woman was not created for just procreation, but for man as he saw that it was not good for a man to be alone. Sex is too much fun just to have in order to have kids. Good lord, what would we do after she is beyond her child bearing years (which by the way is when she reaches the height of her sexuality).

My late wife and I had a wonderful romance before we got married, and we didn't have sexual intercourse until after our wedding.

To start a relationship without sex?
Sure.
It's called friendship.
Between men and women, it will fail unless it's shallow and pointless and you aren't face to face very much.

To continue a relationship where there was already sex? Sure, it's easier if you both support each other for it, but more problems will arise than if there was sex.


Can you be single, start a "relationship" and decide you never want to have sex, for years, until maybe someday you might want to have kids?

No.

You have a finite amount of time to make it work.
A woman has a finite amount of eggs and constant pressure to use them, a man has a finite attention span (so to speak, sex chemicals are like drugs, a guy can only tolerate them so much before they stop being effective, and a break needs to be had, and other, negative emotional response chemicals, needed to clean him out so he can respond to being pushed to have sex with someone again).

But only if you believe in the process of love and romantic relationships rather than the disney or weirdo version.

Process of love is:
Sex chemicals produced make you want to bang, cause an attraction response, lasting at least as long as a womans cycle in order to make sure you randomly get her when she's able to get pregnant, then less sex chemicals produced and bonding chemicals produced instead, then even less sex chemicals and new partner bonding chemicals produced, and bonding chemicals get transferred towards kids until they are about 4-7.

Then, you can start over to reinduce the sex chemicals, bang some more, get another kid, rebond, and do it all over again.

Or, get bored, start finding other people attractive, decide to get a divorce, and go about your business.

People, in general, follow the cycle and constantly prove the process (e.g. marriage statistics)
They just refuse to admit it.
They want to believe 2 things that are patently untrue.
1. They are in complete conscious control of their behavior, feelings, emotions, and motives.
2. Love is an untapped absolute emotion like immediate joy, they just need the right situation in order to "feel" it, and then do the "right" things in order to maintain it.

So, can you have a relationship without sex?
Yes. But it's pretty much guaranteed to fail in the short term.
After about 1-6 months, if no sex is being had, then it's purely an extension of you and your partners egos, an accessory with a shelf life limited to however useful and stress free it maintains.


As soon as you hit puberty the rest of your life you have a constant push to try and get someone pregnant (or try to get pregnant).
That never gets turned off, without some kind of medical problem.

There's a word for people that spend time with one another and don't have sex. They called FRIENDS! (without benefits)

Without sex relationship is uncomplited.

..drops to his knees.. Thank you God thank you