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Edited by
DramaQueen1
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Sun 06/07/15 03:49 AM
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Let me tap my heels together, and wave my magic wand. Let's be realistic here.
True love does not exist nowadays. Your Romeo or your Juliet doesn't exist. Now I am not against the idea of love. Yes, there was love 50 years ago. Nowadays most men just need objects to satisfy their needs. They want pleasure not love. This world has come to greed and lust only. It is impossible to find true love. In the end there will be heartbreak. I mean even if they say they love you, put a sexy woman in front of him and he will jump her. They will cheat. Go to clubs and see people making out or just hooking up and one night stands is all there is today. I so hope to be proved wrong in the future but sadly that is not possible. |
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Let me tap my heels together, and wave my magic wand. Let's be realistic here. True love does not exist nowadays. Your Romeo or your Juliet doesn't exist. Now I am not against the idea of love. Yes, there was love 50 years ago. Nowadays most men just need objects to satisfy their needs. They want pleasure not love. This world has come to greed and lust only. It is impossible to find true love. In the end there will be heartbreak. I mean even if they say they love you, put a sexy woman in front of him and he will jump her. They will cheat. Go to clubs and see people making out or just hooking up and one night stands is all there is today. I so hope to be proved wrong in the future but sadly that is not possible. Also, the grapes are sour. 
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Yes it exists. My grandparents found it. My parents found it. I found it.
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Let me tap my heels together, and wave my magic wand. Let's be realistic here. True love does not exist nowadays. Your Romeo or your Juliet doesn't exist. Now I am not against the idea of love. Yes, there was love 50 years ago. Nowadays most men just need objects to satisfy their needs. They want pleasure not love. This world has come to greed and lust only. It is impossible to find true love. In the end there will be heartbreak. I mean even if they say they love you, put a sexy woman in front of him and he will jump her. They will cheat. Go to clubs and see people making out or just hooking up and one night stands is all there is today. I so hope to be proved wrong in the future but sadly that is not possible. Well if you look for roses in a onion patch you may not have a lot of luck finding something that won't make you cry. If you look for love in a place where people can't hear each other, pickle their brains, smoke like a stack, and throw their hard earn money at labels, bling, and temporary comfort then you ARE probably going to find misery. If you are looking for love and go some place you can talk to people who are trying to develop their mind, create a home, enjoy a healthy lifestyle, build a community then Your odds get better. It is not to say that you can not find someone celebrating in a club with friends on occasion but if that is a lifestyle, if they are a fixture, you either pass or play at your own risk. Helps if you listen to the song a person is singing. Are they a mocking bird, a predator bird, or are they a nest builder. Someone who tells you what you want to hear, who looks fast and sexy/macho is not going to be the one who will be around to get through the seasons and raise a family, share shelter with you and make the long migrations. The nesting birds are harder to impress. They will watch and see what you are about before they will trust, they don't usually eat out of your hand. |
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Yep there have been studies done on this
if ya care to read academic journals people interested in short term hookups and those looking for long term relationships tend to choose different environments to look in |
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The statement "all men cheat"is generalization of entire gender of which.devalues and assumes you somehow have innate knowledge of workings of hearts and minds of all men
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Edited by
Awatersign
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Sun 06/07/15 09:31 AM
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I had real love once in my life and yes sir I do believe it exist's. |
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Do real LOVE exist? |
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How can one believe that such a fantasy even lives in today's society?
People who romanticize with true love are blinded by movies. There is no such a thing as true love anymore. Think about the divorce rate. More basic, think about how many partners one goes through in their lifetime. I agree they shouldn't waste their life alone, but can you really be in love with more than one person and call it true love? |
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If you know you are capable of truly loving someone else, that is all the proof you need to know it exists. If you're capable of it, why not someone else?
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How can one believe that such a fantasy even lives in today's society? People who romanticize with true love are blinded by movies. There is no such a thing as true love anymore. Think about the divorce rate. More basic, think about how many partners one goes through in their lifetime. I agree they shouldn't waste their life alone, but can you really be in love with more than one person and call it true love? Wow just because of a few bad apples in my bunch doesn't mean I give up hope. Love is out there...jas been and always will be |
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Most couples that walk down aisle are in love.
least I would hope they are to make a statement that it was not true love if it did not last is black and white simplistic notion in an often gray world you as outsider are not privy to all the circumstances and hardships and drama and issues that they may have experienced in course of the marriage |
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Let me tap my heels together, and wave my magic wand. Let's be realistic here. True love does not exist nowadays. Your Romeo or your Juliet doesn't exist. Now I am not against the idea of love. Yes, there was love 50 years ago. Nowadays most men just need objects to satisfy their needs. They want pleasure not love. This world has come to greed and lust only. It is impossible to find true love. In the end there will be heartbreak. I mean even if they say they love you, put a sexy woman in front of him and he will jump her. They will cheat. Go to clubs and see people making out or just hooking up and one night stands is all there is today. I so hope to be proved wrong in the future but sadly that is not possible. Looking at your profile, your age and where you're from I wonder if we have seen you on here before. Hmmmmm I wonder |
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Edited by
DramaQueen1
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Sun 06/07/15 03:23 PM
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Let me tap my heels together, and wave my magic wand. Let's be realistic here. True love does not exist nowadays. Your Romeo or your Juliet doesn't exist. Now I am not against the idea of love. Yes, there was love 50 years ago. Nowadays most men just need objects to satisfy their needs. They want pleasure not love. This world has come to greed and lust only. It is impossible to find true love. In the end there will be heartbreak. I mean even if they say they love you, put a sexy woman in front of him and he will jump her. They will cheat. Go to clubs and see people making out or just hooking up and one night stands is all there is today. I so hope to be proved wrong in the future but sadly that is not possible. Looking at your profile, your age and where you're from I wonder if we have seen you on here before. Hmmmmm I wonder I'm new here. What are you talking about? BTW My username does not describe me. I'm a drama teacher. |
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Let me tap my heels together, and wave my magic wand. Let's be realistic here. True love does not exist nowadays. Your Romeo or your Juliet doesn't exist. Now I am not against the idea of love. Yes, there was love 50 years ago. Nowadays most men just need objects to satisfy their needs. They want pleasure not love. This world has come to greed and lust only. It is impossible to find true love. In the end there will be heartbreak. I mean even if they say they love you, put a sexy woman in front of him and he will jump her. They will cheat. Go to clubs and see people making out or just hooking up and one night stands is all there is today. I so hope to be proved wrong in the future but sadly that is not possible. Well if you look for roses in a onion patch you may not have a lot of luck finding something that won't make you cry. If you look for love in a place where people can't hear each other, pickle their brains, smoke like a stack, and throw their hard earn money at labels, bling, and temporary comfort then you ARE probably going to find misery. If you are looking for love and go some place you can talk to people who are trying to develop their mind, create a home, enjoy a healthy lifestyle, build a community then Your odds get better. It is not to say that you can not find someone celebrating in a club with friends on occasion but if that is a lifestyle, if they are a fixture, you either pass or play at your own risk. Helps if you listen to the song a person is singing. Are they a mocking bird, a predator bird, or are they a nest builder. Someone who tells you what you want to hear, who looks fast and sexy/macho is not going to be the one who will be around to get through the seasons and raise a family, share shelter with you and make the long migrations. The nesting birds are harder to impress. They will watch and see what you are about before they will trust, they don't usually eat out of your hand. you are a wise woman! |
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Do real LOVE exist? Yes it does... No doubt in my mind.. if ya care to read academic journals
people interested in short term hookups and those looking for long term relationships tend to choose different environments to look in Many studies have been done and it has been proven out time and time again.. Brings to mind a client from years ago... Couldn't figure out why none of his relationships were working for him.. He was a homebody, not much of a socializer and yet each one of the women he got into a long term relationship was met in a bar...Wasn't til he had the lightbulb go on and realized he was hooking up not entering into relationship with alike ideals did he move from short term to long term... The statement "all men cheat"is generalization of entire gender of which.devalues and assumes you somehow have innate knowledge of workings of hearts and minds of all men
I find statements like this to be insulting to so many, there is no such thing as "all, always, or never"... There is "always" exception to the rule. I know for me, whenever I generalize I usually eat my words. 
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Yes there is true love. Basically what it is you put the needs, feelings, and wants of others before yours. If you love your spouse, children, parents, etc in that way your love is great. You don't need books, or great knowlegde to know what true love is because you know God is love and He sent His son Jesus Christ out of love for us so we can live with Him. You can not know true love without God. God bless!
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Goof says that true love exists......just have to be patient and let it happen. I bet I'll meet my future ex in a frozen food section of the grocery store.
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I agree reap what you sow. Love is like kama. You only get back as much as your willing to give out.
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Edited by
Unknow
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Mon 06/08/15 02:58 AM
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Like a flower, talk & feed & nurture it. Hold on to it if your lucky enough to find it. Respect it. |
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