Topic: what do u do if u meet a crazzzzy girl or guy on here
lilwabbit's photo
Wed 10/10/07 12:52 PM
be honest with her and tell her she needs to chil with the phone calls. avoiding people just hurts them worse

gr8time's photo
Wed 10/10/07 12:52 PM
yup.....and i told her how i felt...but it seems like she is in a fantasy ...... she tells me she misses me and we met 1 time...thats y im only here for friends now.

ashleya's photo
Wed 10/10/07 12:53 PM
how have you been gr8time?

txmama74's photo
Wed 10/10/07 12:53 PM
gr8time---need me to handle ur business..woman to woman...laugh

bookworm's photo
Wed 10/10/07 12:54 PM
The poor girl is obviously loaded with "issues".

I agree with wabbit. You need to try to level with her - maybe several times - and hope that she sees how she's driving you away.

no photo
Wed 10/10/07 12:55 PM
Hey

You may need to tell her to chill with all the calls. I don't see the point in changing your number for pressed people. Just explain to her that you recieved "all" of her messages.. but it is kind of annoying to see 13 missed calls and a bunch of messages.

Those are serious "STALKER TENDENCIES"

She just likes you wayyyyy tooooo much.

If she doesn't stop..then change it.

You are right though... good thing she doesn't know where you live.

VEE

adj4u's photo
Wed 10/10/07 12:56 PM
i would return the call

inform them that you only need to leave one message

and i will call you back at my earliest possibility

but my phone ringing causes me problems if it happens to often

if i do not call you back within 24 hours then call and remind me if you wish

but if you continue to make these huge amounts of calls
you might as well never call

but hey what do i know

gr8time's photo
Wed 10/10/07 12:56 PM
i have tried it dont work it's creepy....

i have been good.... you?

havent seen ya on in awhile ash.

no photo
Wed 10/10/07 12:57 PM
She's not crazy, just desperate.

lilwabbit's photo
Wed 10/10/07 12:58 PM
if you told her and she still wont id say time to block a number and avoid

no photo
Wed 10/10/07 12:59 PM
Give me her info.. i will handle it for.. very nicely

txmama74's photo
Wed 10/10/07 01:00 PM
seriously---people who tend to live in fantasy worlds don't focus on reality, right...her obsessiveness is dirested at u, probably coming from her past relationship---the best thing i think to do...is just stop all and any contact with her...it will pass....she will get the picture. you would be surprised, what ignoring her can do

no photo
Wed 10/10/07 01:02 PM
sometimes.. that will make them more sad and nuts...

I'm telling you

Let me handle it.. I will not be mean.. I will just explain.. I am your long lost sister (by marriage of course)... and I don't want her calling my brother again.

I got you.. believe me.. it will work..

Believe me..lol
:wink:

Heartofplatinum's photo
Wed 10/10/07 01:07 PM
andwer the call and tell her how it is. yall aint even together and shes already this clingy???juss imagine how itd be if yall started dating.....noway

gr8time's photo
Wed 10/10/07 01:08 PM
thanx but id rather keep this in my control....but thanx for the thought

txmama74's photo
Wed 10/10/07 01:08 PM
i'm telling u, no contact..this just reinforces her fantasy....wait a while..no contact....she should respond to that...and move on

gr8time's photo
Wed 10/10/07 01:09 PM
thats what im sayin heart

txmama74's photo
Wed 10/10/07 01:10 PM
:wink: no problem, i'm wise..

coco56's photo
Wed 10/10/07 01:26 PM
omg tell her to leave u alone i had a person bother me, i told him that my phone was taped and i said and if you call me once more the police will be right at your door and he never called again , of course i just said that but he belived me

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 10/10/07 06:10 PM
How do I spell stalker relief? Its not rolaids!