I was thinking that too. I feel sorry for the wife it's sad

Then why marrying her in the first place? I feel bad for your wife.

I think he ruined it himself, didn't he?

Also, who's marriage have I ruined? I personally have never been married.

I have spent five years looking after my kids as my wife worked away in London and when she come home she u to give me **** for not having a clean house she never wanted kids .
And run a farm and holiday cottages hottub b&b

I have spent five years looking after my kids as my wife worked away in London and when she come home she u to give me **** for not having a clean house she never wanted kids .
And run a farm and holiday cottages hottub b&b

I for one won't criticize because I find it all rather sad.

Try counseling and good luck.

If you've got anything about you it may work, but if some are right on here and you are looking for a fling, you won't only be cheating on your wife, you'll be cheating on your kids too.

pretty lame.

your profile says you want a intimate encounter. So why not just call it like it is. Your married.. have kids.. but are looking to get l**d on the side. Do you think people are that stupid as not to see that?

Well if that's the case. You might want to tell her to hush her mouth and treat you with respect. And then you may wanna try again on the marriage. This if you want to try though

I married for 9 months {while pregnant worked 3 part-time jobs} while he went fishing {when he was supposed to be working heavy construction}...he didn't last long! I call that my PRACTICE MARRIAGE...LOL
My 2nd marriage {4yrs later} lasted 20yrs --- yes, it was supposed to be 4EVER; but nothing in life is guaranteed - Dang IT, he died!

But here's my 'need to know'; {answer if you chose to or not} --- didn't you and your 'LOVELY' have that > 'do you want children' question discussion prior to her getting pregnant {TWICE}- pre-wedding talks about 'what do we see our future looking like'
Just like a walking sperm bank doesn't equate to 'INSTANT DADDY MATERIAL'...having a 'WOMB' doesn't equate to 'INSTANT MOMMY' material either!

Okay Peter, can I call you Peter?
Here's the deal. You are 40 yrs old, having a mid life crisis & the 7yr inch
So you put yourself on an international date site.
But according to your profile you want to drunk & shag local.
Are you looking for approval or validation ?
Whatever this woman is or is not, you married her.The why? is irrelevant. And she married you. Again irrelevant.
Whatever you or her do or don't do, with this marriage will dramatically effect a minimum of 7 people in you lives.
There will be consequences for your actions & your inactions. As long as you know this & don't blame others for their reactions....(including her taking a lover & leaving you) then do what you want to do.
And take it like a man, if the bottom drops out.

Maybe if your life expectancy is under 30.

Otherwise no.

You aren't "supposed" to.
Biology doesn't support it as much as the somewhat short term alternative (4-7 years), westernized society no longer promotes or rewards it all that much, nor does westernized society condemn or punish not spending all your life with one person.

Without rewards and consequences or a natural built in impetus towards something, there's nothing that says you are "supposed" to do it.


But you can choose to, and then live up to it.

Unfortunately, your choices are solely your responsibility, and there's no pushing it onto anyone or anything else simply because you did what you are "supposed" to.
"I was just following orders!" hasn't worked all that well as an excuse.

looks around his empty house... Apparently not lol

My heart goes out to you but that is not the answer.
A loveless marriage sucks.
Could you look at yourself in the mirror afterwards?
You come across as a nice guy.
Don't do it.

Yes we should... we should try hard to make it work with that person and keep them happy