Topic: Sole Mate and rot-mance
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Sat 05/30/15 02:20 PM
I personally DO believe in soulmates because of my own experience.
Hubby and I met in what some of ya'll call a "disney-fairy-tale-fantasy" way. From the moment we locked eyes, the rest was simply meant to be. I won't go into ALL the gory details, but it's the age-old scenario....he was romantic, he said I was the one for him, we simply clicked and neither would have been happy without the other. I was 19, he was 26...he had lived quite a bit before I met him and he said to me "I have traveled the world to find myself and came home to find YOU, my soul, my other half". We married, worked, bought a home, had children, had a life TOGETHER. Throughout the years he said/showed me many sides of him and I to him. He always had some "romantic" sayings, but those sayings would be followed with actions that proved they weren't just simply sayings. We had a wonderful life together, yes even with the heartaches, the struggling times, the mournings, etc. We worked TOGETHER all the time...even when we disagreed.
When He died, I felt I could not go on. He was ALWAYS there for me and our children....NEVER did he wander off in any way, shape or form.
I DID go on only because throughout our lives together, He showed me that He wanted happiness for me, our children, US. So, that means for me to move on and be happy and love again.

I do believe in soulmates. I don't believe is is simply romance. I don't believe that intelligence and science can prove or disprove soulmates.

I simply BELIEVE flowerforyou

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Sat 05/30/15 02:37 PM
Sole mates are very important, in
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Sat 05/30/15 02:48 PM
I do believe in Soul mates

Someone to feed the ducks with smitten




SitkaRains's photo
Sat 05/30/15 03:09 PM

I personally DO believe in soulmates because of my own experience.
Hubby and I met in what some of ya'll call a "disney-fairy-tale-fantasy" way. From the moment we locked eyes, the rest was simply meant to be. I won't go into ALL the gory details, but it's the age-old scenario....he was romantic, he said I was the one for him, we simply clicked and neither would have been happy without the other. I was 19, he was 26...he had lived quite a bit before I met him and he said to me "I have traveled the world to find myself and came home to find YOU, my soul, my other half". We married, worked, bought a home, had children, had a life TOGETHER. Throughout the years he said/showed me many sides of him and I to him. He always had some "romantic" sayings, but those sayings would be followed with actions that proved they weren't just simply sayings. We had a wonderful life together, yes even with the heartaches, the struggling times, the mournings, etc. We worked TOGETHER all the time...even when we disagreed.
When He died, I felt I could not go on. He was ALWAYS there for me and our children....NEVER did he wander off in any way, shape or form.
I DID go on only because throughout our lives together, He showed me that He wanted happiness for me, our children, US. So, that means for me to move on and be happy and love again.

I do believe in soulmates. I don't believe is is simply romance. I don't believe that intelligence and science can prove or disprove soulmates.

I simply BELIEVE flowerforyou



Some of do believe in if we are really lucky we get a chance to have another go around with someone that completes you in all ways...

If I didn't believe whole heartedly in this I would give up trying.

Goofball73's photo
Sat 05/30/15 03:26 PM

Do you believe in a Soul-Mate?

What are soul-mates? how can people have soul-mates when very intelligent people like Dawkins tell us Man has no soul?

Do you think the whole concept is romantic? If someone doesn't believe in Soul-Mates does that mean that person isn't romantic?

What do you think?

Thank you
many sou

I believe that people enter your life for a purpose. You never know what that purpose is and well....it could be that you meet (and have) many soul mates. Could be that you date someone for a bit and realize that your time with that person is over and it is time to move along.

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Sat 05/30/15 04:54 PM

A soul mate does not always refer to a romantic connection. . It can simply be someone who wraps their arms around you and holds you without any selfishness ..

A theory of reincarnation attests souls travel in packs and that throughout lifetimes ... special connections Are made .. Sometimes this can be a random stranger .. met only fleetingly ..but having a profound effect on you or your life .. Often With a sense of knowing them before .. This is what is meant by the eyes being windows to the soul . Referring to recognising members of your soul pack .

Nor is it exclusive to human souls .. Animal souls can be part of your pack.

It is a poetic notion of never being alone .. Of connections that will always be .. It speaks of love :-)

So are you saying that I could still see my old dog 'Sam' when I curl my toes up. ohwell

That would be awesome.
I wonder if he would still be like a dog, I mean if I could take him for walks and things, and if he'd still cock his leg for a pee

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Sat 05/30/15 05:38 PM

I personally DO believe in soulmates because of my own experience.
Hubby and I met in what some of ya'll call a "disney-fairy-tale-fantasy" way. From the moment we locked eyes, the rest was simply meant to be. I won't go into ALL the gory details, but it's the age-old scenario....he was romantic, he said I was the one for him, we simply clicked and neither would have been happy without the other. I was 19, he was 26...he had lived quite a bit before I met him and he said to me "I have traveled the world to find myself and came home to find YOU, my soul, my other half". We married, worked, bought a home, had children, had a life TOGETHER. Throughout the years he said/showed me many sides of him and I to him. He always had some "romantic" sayings, but those sayings would be followed with actions that proved they weren't just simply sayings. We had a wonderful life together, yes even with the heartaches, the struggling times, the mournings, etc. We worked TOGETHER all the time...even when we disagreed.
When He died, I felt I could not go on. He was ALWAYS there for me and our children....NEVER did he wander off in any way, shape or form.
I DID go on only because throughout our lives together, He showed me that He wanted happiness for me, our children, US. So, that means for me to move on and be happy and love again.

I do believe in soulmates. I don't believe is is simply romance. I don't believe that intelligence and science can prove or disprove soulmates.

I simply BELIEVE flowerforyou



:heart:

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Sun 05/31/15 04:48 AM

I personally DO believe in soulmates because of my own experience.
Hubby and I met in what some of ya'll call a "disney-fairy-tale-fantasy" way. From the moment we locked eyes, the rest was simply meant to be. I won't go into ALL the gory details, but it's the age-old scenario....he was romantic, he said I was the one for him, we simply clicked and neither would have been happy without the other. I was 19, he was 26...he had lived quite a bit before I met him and he said to me "I have traveled the world to find myself and came home to find YOU, my soul, my other half". We married, worked, bought a home, had children, had a life TOGETHER. Throughout the years he said/showed me many sides of him and I to him. He always had some "romantic" sayings, but those sayings would be followed with actions that proved they weren't just simply sayings. We had a wonderful life together, yes even with the heartaches, the struggling times, the mournings, etc. We worked TOGETHER all the time...even when we disagreed.
When He died, I felt I could not go on. He was ALWAYS there for me and our children....NEVER did he wander off in any way, shape or form.
I DID go on only because throughout our lives together, He showed me that He wanted happiness for me, our children, US. So, that means for me to move on and be happy and love again.

I do believe in soulmates. I don't believe is is simply romance. I don't believe that intelligence and science can prove or disprove soulmates.

I simply BELIEVE flowerforyou



You give me hope, lady. This is beautiful. I love hearing about experiences like yours and true love. Yeah, I'm a female. Lol

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Sun 05/31/15 06:47 AM
I belive in soulmates and I agree that the soulmate can but doesn�t have to be someone you are romantically involved with. It can be a dear friend too.
I have example of soulmates in my family but I also experienced that. So I don�t really have to belive because I simply know.
There are so many things that cannot be explained rationally nor through the science. Sometimes one just has to come to that through their own experience.
If someone doesn�t belive in it, it just means he has no personal experience with that, that�s all.

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Sun 05/31/15 07:13 AM
Edited by Serchin4MyRedWine on Sun 05/31/15 07:28 AM
I had a soulmate once, one true love that was all encompassing. A love so deep and boundless. We shared everything from hobbies, music, food, movies and just enjoyed all aspects of life together. There was never a question of trust or compromise, We were one and same, yet different. There was nothing either of us would not do for the other without hesitation or question. And finally, I would have given my life for him without thinking twice. There was no romance involved, just pure,unconditional love!


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Sun 05/31/15 07:18 AM

I do believe in Soul mates

Someone to feed the ducks with smitten





I like your statement, Hugh.
flowerforyou


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Sun 05/31/15 07:31 AM


I do believe in Soul mates

Someone to feed the ducks with smitten





I like your statement, Hugh.
flowerforyou



Pardon me

Rain scene, the notebook flowers

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Sun 05/31/15 09:03 AM



I do believe in Soul mates

Someone to feed the ducks with smitten





I like your statement, Hugh.
flowerforyou



Pardon me

Rain scene, the notebook flowers


:thumbsup: "The Notebook"...:heart: smitten :heart: smitten :heart: smitten

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Sun 05/31/15 09:14 AM
I believe in soul-mates, but not in the way you might think...First comes chemistry and like-mindedness...Out of this compatibility is realized...From that trust and respect begin to grow and turn into the kind of love that makes hard work and compromise seem easy...So easy in fact, that we realize we have found "a" soul-mate....Do I believe each of us has more than one soul-mate?...Absolutely!..:heart:

MelMaxx's photo
Sun 05/31/15 10:58 AM


I personally DO believe in soulmates because of my own experience.
Hubby and I met in what some of ya'll call a "disney-fairy-tale-fantasy" way. From the moment we locked eyes, the rest was simply meant to be. I won't go into ALL the gory details, but it's the age-old scenario....he was romantic, he said I was the one for him, we simply clicked and neither would have been happy without the other. I was 19, he was 26...he had lived quite a bit before I met him and he said to me "I have traveled the world to find myself and came home to find YOU, my soul, my other half". We married, worked, bought a home, had children, had a life TOGETHER. Throughout the years he said/showed me many sides of him and I to him. He always had some "romantic" sayings, but those sayings would be followed with actions that proved they weren't just simply sayings. We had a wonderful life together, yes even with the heartaches, the struggling times, the mournings, etc. We worked TOGETHER all the time...even when we disagreed.
When He died, I felt I could not go on. He was ALWAYS there for me and our children....NEVER did he wander off in any way, shape or form.
I DID go on only because throughout our lives together, He showed me that He wanted happiness for me, our children, US. So, that means for me to move on and be happy and love again.

I do believe in soulmates. I don't believe is is simply romance. I don't believe that intelligence and science can prove or disprove soulmates.

I simply BELIEVE flowerforyou



Some of do believe in if we are really lucky we get a chance to have another go around with someone that completes you in all ways...

If I didn't believe whole heartedly in this I would give up trying.


Agreed, Rains flowerforyou

Never give up, never surrender bigsmile

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Sun 05/31/15 11:12 AM
Agree with most of the people here, soulmate do exist and only thing we need to do is to find them, or 1 step further we also dont need to search somehow they come accross and we need to do only one thing is keep the options open and do not cut down the options before a relation starts and rest will follolove w

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Sun 05/31/15 11:46 AM

Agree with most of the people here, soulmate do exist and only thing we need to do is to find them, or 1 step further we also dont need to search somehow they come accross and we need to do only one thing is keep the options open and do not cut down the options before a relation starts and rest will follolove w


I agree with those who said Soul-Mates don't exist.
I think that whole concept was invented by people who are afraid to look at life straight in the eyes and must invent or subscribe to some romantic notion of what constitute a relationship.
I believe that there are people we get along with much better than others and that can translate in a solid relationship, but that doesn't mean these two people were somehow "destined" to meet or even live together in whatever passes for marriage these days.

MelMaxx's photo
Sun 05/31/15 12:42 PM


Agree with most of the people here, soulmate do exist and only thing we need to do is to find them, or 1 step further we also dont need to search somehow they come accross and we need to do only one thing is keep the options open and do not cut down the options before a relation starts and rest will follolove w


I agree with those who said Soul-Mates don't exist.
I think that whole concept was invented by people who are afraid to look at life straight in the eyes and must invent or subscribe to some romantic notion of what constitute a relationship.
I believe that there are people we get along with much better than others and that can translate in a solid relationship, but that doesn't mean these two people were somehow "destined" to meet or even live together in whatever passes for marriage these days.


I feel so sad for you Rooster. I truly hope someone comes into your life that makes you change your mind. I wish you good hunting for that feeling of love, lust, life that does not exist without them by your side.flowerforyou

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Sun 05/31/15 02:28 PM
Edited by joethebricky on Sun 05/31/15 02:30 PM
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Sun 05/31/15 02:29 PM
Photo not found. You a ghost already?