Do you flirt when your kids are with you? I find it is very difficult to do, but it seems that every time I see the guy I am interested in my kids are with me. What do you do?

my kid don't mind , but as you can see in my profile pic , she is fur covered and don't care if i flirt
come to think about it , i think she flirts more then i do

Hahaha My furry kids think everyone comes to see them.

well most of the time when someone comes to visit , they are visiting her <shrug> not complaining at all : )

its nice when people visit

jp age etc contributes to it.but if you watch the content i would say go for it. you can do an awful lot of flirting without ever going near trashy or sexual besides from the other thread i bet they where trying to feed you lines

What are the boundaries for flirting when you have kids?

She does have that "brazen hussy" look about her.

You have to determine that yourself. It depends on their ages and what you call flirting. In general I don't think it's a problem or that most kids would even notice unless they're teenagers.

how ar eu doing

Two disclaimers first off.
1) I don't have my kids all the time.
2) I try not to mix romance with parenting until relationship is established.

That being said....

When I take my kids to the park and there is what appears to be an attractive single mom there. You better believe I flirt!

Most of the times kids are off doing there own thing and not really paying attention to every little thing you do. Even if they are does it really matter? Would it really be a bad thing for them to see how flirting works? It's already been said as long as you don't get too....overt?....what is the difference between being nice to someone and flirting from the kids perspective? I have met plenty of people that are just naturally flirty with just about everyone. (Especially when I look in the mirror.) I have never seen any affect on the kids.

That is just my 2 cents, take it or leave it. It's completely up to you.

Nope, I've never tried to flirt with anyone while my kids were with me. They would be horrified and I would be too embarrassed.

Maybe you're doing it wrong. Sorry just a joke.

Exactly... Hats off to you... sir.

When my kids were at home.. Nope I didn't bring my dates around I figure it I wasn't sure if they were long term material I wasn't going to introduce my kids...


Now flirting heck I flirt with anything and everyone...

The sexy type of flirting I don't think I am very good at that one..
I am too direct and I don't think what I saw constitutes flirting and I sure wouldnt' say it in front of my children now and they have 1/2 grown kids of their own...

If you would like to practice to get better, I happily offer my assistance.

The other thing about this is: If someone shows interest in you when you have your kids along it might not be a bad thing, at all, to return. There are lots of guys that find kids intimidating. If he thinks that's ok, that could be a good thing, one less hurdle, y'know?

Keep safety and security in mind, for you and your little ones, but I wouldn't rule out flirting a bit in this situation.

. I just shoulder check my boys.. really hard knocking them out of the way..lol... and then do my thing..!