Nowadays serious and loyal relationship is very important because nowadays difficult to find a loyal girl

Yes, its very hard to know who is real from who is not..they all claim to be looking for a long term relationship but at the end of the day you discovered that they are not even whom they said they were

Hmmmm..yes be wary of scammers and catfishers and the attention whores who are addicted to talking to as many online people as they can get. Just be patient though ok? Not all like that and I wish you best in your search

Thanks for being here. I also have had a difficult time finding real people on here.

I will never dispute a person's own experience.

I find more often than not if someone can not find what they are looking for then often they are looking in the wrong place and attracted by things that should signal you that a person has different values and behaviors than will ultimately make you very unhappy happy in the long run.

Generally people who are loyal, honest, and can maintain a long term relationship demonstrate that in their day to day lifestyle.

They have good family relationships, they stuck it out in school, they hold down a job, they pay their bills, and live with in their means. They use their brains and personality to catch you and keep you. There sexuality is reserved and the icing on the cake not the whole flavor of the minute.

Many years I have worked with younger vets and asked them what they really wanted? What would they want to come home too after the new wears off; say a year, five years, even when twenty years goes by? Did they see that in the women they were dating? I ask them are the words and actions that are falling out of that person the ones you will be able to live with? Do you even LIKE that person?

You don't pick a woman like you pick a running buddy. You don't pick a woman because she is a right now gal. And if she clearly doesn't like you the person she isn't ever going to stick around just because you help her or entertain her for the moment.

Chances are the woman that will make you happiest is someone you work with, lives in your neighborhood, and even knows the significant people in your life. She will be the one who remembers your work routines, your Momma or kids birthday, and tells you when you forget to roll the window up on your car door. It will be the little things that show she is considerate and not making you a slave to making her the center of the world. She isn't a Princess, and she might not even be picture perfect, but the words Thank You, please, may I help, and no are part of her da to day
vocabulary.

You want a woman with standards look for the standards then look at the woman and I bet money you will see plenty of "keepers".

They are certainly out in the world and even well represented her on Mingle. Good luck.

P.S. This guide is not gender specific . It applies just as well to men.

This is the first time that I have tried the forums. It's refreshing to see the posts.

has it ever been easy?

Welcome to the wonderful world of Forums Allen

Thank you.

wow nice :) bullseye ^_^

@pacificstar48 you got it!^_^

Great advice... I know there was a few years a while back all I could seem to date was men that just didn't want the same things out of life.
I took some time off the dating field and worked on me...
Because what I was projecting was what I* was attracting...

I am new in this forum .
But very agreed with those members over here .
Discussed about the loyal. Honest , and devoted to the beloved family.
I wish I can find a good guy over here.
Many people do not turn up as they say , this is a big worry

I truly believe that impatience is a huge barrier to finding a serious connection and building a loyal relationship. It takes time to get to know one another, and there are some people out there that want to rush through the getting to know you stage, and dive into I want you for myself forever. How can I possibly commit to someone who I've not spent time laughing with, sharing stories, listening to how they feel, and seeing them react to everyday things? If it's right, the length of the journey will not affect the outcome. In fact, it may only improve it...

There is something to be said for the old school traditional route where two people see each every day,joke with each other,talk and get to know each other and as time goes by both realize they would like to move that friendship into something more

That ^^^^ just doesn't seem to happen any more.

Its the new age Suz all ya gots to do to find true love now is exchange a few naughty pics , talk dirty to each other and hook up

That's what they keep telling me

I presume, the 'new age' shouldn't be 'necessarily' categorized 'this' way.. I mean instances of 'A Walk To Remember' does occur at places in 'this' age, as well... In my opinion, it's not the 'age' but 'human beings' (regardless of 'gender'), that varies.. Not all look at 'human relationships' from the same perspective..Perhaps, this difference in 'outlook' has oft been grossly misinterpreted as 'Variety is the spice of life'

Haahaa ahh yes I am aware that not all human beings are looking for the same thing