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Topic: is there such a thing as a good honest guy? are any left
whytepawn Joined Thu 04/23/15 Posts: 37	Fri 05/08/15 12:10 AM
how would you see the gem in front of you when you are fixated on superficial things... most ladies will tell you they want a guy who is tall, macho with six packs and all.They want Mr romantic, Mr fun to be with... a guy who will sweep them off their feet ; in most cases he would leave you hanging in mid air only for you to slam back down, back to reality. open your eyes ladies cos the perfect guy for you must not always come in the sort of package you've often imagined...

DadCat Joined Thu 02/12/15 Posts: 501	Fri 05/08/15 01:03 AM
is there such a thing as a good honest guy? are any left <<<<--------

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Fri 05/08/15 02:19 AM
Beats me shrugs shoulders

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 05/08/15 04:47 AM
And Awatersign has the most awesome avatar of all time! Yes sir!!!!

WonderWoman48 Joined Tue 01/27/15 Posts: 1560	Fri 05/08/15 04:49 AM


Quintessentially Joined Fri 02/20/15 Posts: 1382	Fri 05/08/15 04:50 AM
There better be coz I'm comin' to GET YOU!

Friendly_Woman Joined Mon 04/27/15 Posts: 728	Fri 05/08/15 10:52 AM
Hello OP :) I've only dated men, after we were friends first. I didn't plan that stuff. I thought We'd just stay friends and nothing more. Male friends were so clever at hiding their feelings from me. I don't see any of them now. We moved on. It took quite a while to happen, as it always takes courage to admit to anyone that you have feelings for them. I don't advise doing anything too soon, because it may not be as fantastic as it might be, in your mind. I also don't advise being drunk, while having only known him for a few weeks. And yes I'm talking from experience.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Fri 05/08/15 06:57 PM
op I like to think that there are a few honest ones left but ya never really know

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Fri 05/08/15 07:09 PM
I think you make your own reality. If you believe a good man exists and look for those traits that you would qualify as a good man then it is likely you will find one. Probably helps to think less of Prince Charming, Super Man, or Mr. Wonderful and be realistic that Men are Human Beings just like women. Also helps in you buckle down and be a Good Woman and show by your action and your deeds that you are worth picking. The Good guys are not likely to come charging forward and bow at your knees but watch a while and see what you are about. They might say a friendly hello or send you a wink but if you get too picky and prissy they will find plenty here that don't have and attitude and your reputation will proceed you. I know for a fact there are some really great guys on Mingle that would make for what I would call a GOOD Man. Many are hard working, educated or Master's in tier professions, great Dad's, and I think given a chance would be good partners. I have seen many lasting relationships /marriages come about here so you are in the right spot.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 05/08/15 08:33 PM


bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Fri 05/08/15 08:38 PM
Why aren't you guys posting pictures of your cars and gold cards???...

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 05/08/15 08:43 PM Edited by Awatersign on Fri 05/08/15 08:44 PM
Why aren't you guys posting pictures of your cars and gold cards???... you gat jokes

Snowflake961 Joined Fri 05/01/15 Posts: 10	Sat 05/09/15 08:26 AM
Actually yeah I think there are some left...very rare though

SassyEuro2 Joined Wed 04/29/15 Posts: 11102	Sat 05/09/15 08:34 AM
Uuuum..no no and no?????! When you do find one.... Send his Uncle over.

WonderWoman48 Joined Tue 01/27/15 Posts: 1560	Sat 05/09/15 08:40 AM


WTMTM79 Joined Thu 04/30/15 Posts: 17	Sat 05/09/15 09:10 AM
Always an abundant supply in the friend zone lol

Snoman1951 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 5731	Sat 05/09/15 09:21 AM
A good man is hard to find, but a hard man is good to find

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Sat 05/09/15 09:28 AM
Most good guys can be found in the Friend Zone where we are usually unceremoniously tossed into lol Wow what I have found here is the said men that complain about this are still good men they just forgot to tell us they never wanted to be put in the friends zone.. This statement reminds me of a guy I once knew I was really interested in him as a dating material I did everything I could to find out.. I find out years later that he wanted to date me back then funny he forgot to let me know and once a guy is in the friends zone it is rare they ever come out... So maybe let said woman know you are interested in more

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Sat 05/09/15 09:30 AM
A good man is hard to find, but a hard man is good to find aahhhh man I was kinda hoping for both

SassyEuro2 Joined Wed 04/29/15 Posts: 11102	Sat 05/09/15 09:35 AM
A good man is hard to find, but a hard man is good to find aahhhh man I was kinda hoping for both Consideing some women still believe in Walt Disney fairy tales... I think you are doing good !