Predators want any easy target.
So my point is...don't be one.
And he will move on to another.
Women "pretending" they don't know what is going on, makes her a target. The worst thing she can do is
" be nice" or" act like she doesn't notice".

What do animals/ predators do?
Look for the weak, the young the old, the sick, the wounded. the solitarily.... and ones not paying attention.
NOT the ones that would or fight back.

I had to think about all the creepy men in my building. I counted 3 regulars so far. I found out that one of them is a sex offender but it happened 20 years ago. They all stare at me. I kept getting into a confrontation with another one because he lived on my floor. He would open his door any time I took out the trash or I would wait by the elevators. He claimed he was waiting for a friend. Any time someone would pass by his apt., he would peek out. And he was always home, day or night!!! It drove me nuts so I told him to stop harassing people. I complained to the manager and the manager told me he knew about him and that he was "out of his mind", to use his words. I believe he finally moved out. The worst part is I have a sneaking suspicion that he snapped a photo of me when I ran into him in the lobby. He pretended he was taking a selfie and pointed the camera at me and clicked. Ewwwwww. Why? Why?

like the kind of guy who takes his un-leashed cat for walks around the neighborhood? and gives it commands like its a dog while the cat just runs away from him and stares at him. and everytime he sees you he stops you to gives you his cats life story/medical history everytime he sees you.

do they have a self defense class you could take? you could carry pepper spray in your purse if it might help you to feel safer

Paranoid Americans

Holy BatChit people.... do you really live in neighborhoods that you have to carry pepperspray?? Self Defense classes??
Man taking cat for walks with out leash...

If someone was listening to my calls there would be a stalking order coming out

I think I am glad I live up here in Alaska..
My little world seems tame compared to yours...

I don't 'have' to carry pepper spray.

But... It comes in handy, for keeping the
dirty hippies away.

IDK I pay no mind to those who even marginally creep me out...I got a look about me when I need it and those type don;t dare pester me (if they have an ounce of self preservation, that is ) lol

this issue has not been a problem for me ever in all my life

a friend of mine
a few yrs ago
her daughter has this guy
that kept stalking her
and they finally called the police
and got info
and of course they got
a restraining order where
hes not allowed anywhere on there
street.
he has a very strange name
cant remember what the heck
it was for he was from some
island

and now she has another guy
that was hounding her
by the bus and he would
play with her hair
and she got his name
as to find out he on probation
and hes not even allowed on the bus
or near the bus station

so hopefully he will
be gone soon

i remember
when i was in high school
i was coming back from
my bf
and there was this guy
that kept driving around
smiling at me
i ended up going
to the gas station
near by
to avoid him
and then i procceed
to walk home
i told my mom
but never saw that guy again

i even remember
in junior high
there was a guy
that was following me
and my mom took me to school
and talked to the principle
they couldnt really do much
but for me to be cauious
well of course

i even remember when i was about 18
i was going every month to the health dept
and i would stand on the corner
to wait for the bus
each time the same man
would drive around and ask me
if i wanted a ride
i told him no
i finally called
the police
and they said they couldnt
do anything unless
he got out of the car
which he didnt

i even remember when my 2nd to the older sister
was in high school
she was at the store and some guy
demanded her to get in the car

im thinking there was one time
when i was in grade school
our neighborhood had a neighborhood
watch and they had signs out
and i went to this one house
i knew who the people were
and if i recall they called
my mom for me


even had a few ex creepy bf
good riddens with them
lol

We use to have one guy who walked the street day and night talking to power poles. He was creepy. He's the first guy I ever saw that could carry on a full conversation with a power pole.

Uh oh... I'm on top of a mountain and dont have many neighbors and really a small hood so I must be that guy... I think not

If you ever see these guys creeping, then run!

Which of about a dozen would I pick from. lol This is California I think it is requirement for guys to be "creepy".

not a guy but we have a creepy woman in our street.her whole house is boarded up with bars on windows and doors.the old neighbour next door went away and when she came bk this woman had painted her whole driveway white.she walks down the road with about 10 layers of clothes on and stops u to talk about how her brain keeps pulsing.she also went away on holiday and didn't get anyone to take care of her budgie so obviously it died poor thing.when she got back she was running down the street with its cage trying to get a new bird to go in it.

forgot to add that every day we get a rousing chorus of her banging her front gates with a hammer.shes in an orchestra apparently when she does it so she says.

I don't think I have a creepy person in my neighborhood... that is. no one that really stands out..... but hang on let me just run outside in my underwear and check... I'll be right back.....






... nope no one creepy outside...
.... I did however find a dead bird..
I'm just going to wrap it up in tin foil..
and then put it in a plastic bag.. and put it in my deep freeze.... on the hope that someday... scientist will be able to bring it back to life....