Ladies I am 32 yr old male and do a lot of people watching everywhere I go and never see couples that look happy or still have that look for one another that says LOVE ,, I wanna hear UR thoughts ladies

I see it everywhere. couples holding hands, both young and old.
Either go to weddings or come to Hawaii.

yes bro , love = 1 partner.

I love 2 girls, one married one a stripper

we have good times together always, but thats because the drama/stress of relationship is absent in affairs.

affairs = ftw

My thoughts are this I don't want to have multiple affairs or partners I want one that connects with me mentally, spiritually, and physically so I can concentrate on just him..

I have seen unhappy couples for each unhappy one I have seen 2 that were happy, the certain look, touch, smile that is only theirs...

Does love really have one partner? It does in my book darling

that^^^^^^to old for the dromma and games,,

"Can't be love if you fool about"

ya and thats how fools think,,or should i say STALKERS,JUST SAYEN

Its Def Leppard lyrics from Love Bites,which I've always loved and lived
by that line. I understand many of couples go to swing clubs and such and are very much in love,not my thing though. The message I posted is about been deceitful if one was ingaged in monogamy
Weren't you just in agreeance with the post above? "Love IS one partner"
?
Hmmm..
Love is one partner = "can't be love if you fool about" = You think like a fool or a STALKER..according to you.
I guess if you are not lying now you most have been lying then.
Of course 5 days have past so you may have changed your veiw?

Your comment was unwarranted. JUST SAYIN.'

Not at all sure what you are asking, OP.

Could be you are trying to promote the idea of screwing around with multiple partners;

could be you are challenging the idea that "fate" has chosen one magic mate for each person, and if you miss them you are doomed;

could be you are advocating polygamy;

could be you are just typing random words to make a post.

Anyway, I've so far found that pleasing ONE woman enough to keep her around without fussing at me all the time, is harder than World Conquest. No doubt that's why so many other guys have started wars, or formed criminal gangs.

So finding TWO women who actually like me, sounds theoretically impossible.

I love Def Leppard: "I don't want to touch you too much, baby, 'cause making love to you might drive me crazy"

"Love bites, love bleeds
It's bringin' me to my knees
Love lives, love dies
It's no surprise
Love begs, love pleads
It's what I need

When I'm with you are you somewhere else?
Am I gettin' thru or do you please yourself?
When you wake up will you walk out?
It can't be love if you throw it about
Ooh babe"

Hmmm,I thing the lyrics are wrong here
Which wouldn't be uncommon.

If thats the case I've been worshipping
A line that never was.
Ok I'm changing my life's view then for the new mingles record ..thats right I'm writing a record

lots of good lyrics in that one

The one line (I don't want to be there when you decide to break it)reminds me of a funny Woody Allen quote:
"I'm not afraid of dying,I just don't want to be there when it happens"

Love is never for one

I refuse to answer the question on the grounds that it may incriminate me...

Yes love has one partner
Lust has more. My thoughts.

How do you know they aren't just worried about the stranger that seems to be staring at them?


At a time, sure.
It's all biological and ****.
No partner, you see someone hot, you want to bang them.
With a partner, you see someone hot, you want to bang them, but if you're in love, and are reminded/mindful of that love, other stuff is released that reduces the efficacy of what makes you want to go bang the other chick.

You are set up to "love" one person at a time.
"Loving" one person will reduce your desire and actual ability to bang others.
The more you "love" someone, the more effective the anti lust factor.

Bad news is if you never have children, that bond gets weaker and weaker because you deep down really do want to get someone pregnant.
It's built into you to go through certain chemical stages. Lust, love, kiddies.
When one isn't present (kids), the rest of the process loses its luster and pushes you to find someone where the stages are fully realized.

It's a biological imperative.

Ultimately, it's all for the children.
Really, ultimately, it's all for the stomach or the children.


Of course you do ultimately have free will and can choose to stick around at any time. Although you will go through a lot of stress trying to force something that isn't really supported.