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Most people are looking for more than what they can have!! For years I was guilty of the same thing; and I finely woke up. Look for the person inside not the outside. There is where you will find happiness... It doesn't matter how big her breast are or how good his butt looks in tight jeans. What matters is the person on the inside; they can be beautiful on the outside and the ugliest person you will ever met on the inside. Learn from you mistakes... I did.
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So true.. sadly, there are too many people that waste time thinking "there will be more time" & then wonder they are alone.
For me, at my age it is about companionship first. Unfortunately for me.. there are too many men out there looking for a " Combo" girlfriend. And over 50, that seems to include, housekeeper & nurse... Oh hell no 
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So true.. sadly, there are too many people that waste time thinking "there will be more time" & then wonder they are alone. For me, at my age it is about companionship first. Unfortunately for me.. there are too many men out there looking for a " Combo" girlfriend. And over 50, that seems to include, housekeeper & nurse... Oh hell no
and mama 
so many profiles say " just looking for a good woman" which translates into wanted: cook and housekeeper |
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So true.. sadly, there are too many people that waste time thinking "there will be more time" & then wonder they are alone. For me, at my age it is about companionship first. Unfortunately for me.. there are too many men out there looking for a " Combo" girlfriend. And over 50, that seems to include, housekeeper & nurse... Oh hell no
and mama
so many profiles say " just looking for a good woman" which translates into wanted: cook and housekeeper Hhhaaaa.. I was thinking the " Mama's Boy Syndrome" or more commonly know as " Peter Pan Syndrome". Seeing this a lot... & feeling like a magnet. But all that & age & bad health... Geez. hirer some people & shut up already.. 
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I'm searching for a woman I can love and cherish.
Forever, and beyond time. I'll admit, that the road has had a few potholes. And, I've made a wrong turn here or there. But, I'll keep searching, until I'm absolutely sure that I've found the right woman. I can't have that? Stop me. |
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here is an example of what I see with guys over age of...54
does not exercise on regular basis has health issues often times carrying a lot of hostile baggage towards women that comes across in his profile says he likes to eat at home most of time says he likes to travel but also says he has not done so because he is alone often times the profiles sound like they are written by someone depressed who hates his life |
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A lot of what you say is true. A lot of men and women have hostile baggage their caring. But its not just the over 50 crowd, most people have had at least one bad relationship. I see a lot of 30 and 40 year old profiles reflecting this. I also see a lot of 20 to 40 year old people on this site that out of shape as well. So lets not single out the 50+ people.
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A lot of what you say is true. A lot of men and women have hostile baggage their caring. But its not just the over 50 crowd, most people have had at least one bad relationship. I see a lot of 30 and 40 year old profiles reflecting this. I also see a lot of 20 to 40 year old people on this site that out of shape as well. So lets not single out the 50+ people. no it can be true at any age just saying that the prevalence tends to increase along with age I am not even saying I am opposed to dating someone older than I am just would have to be someone with a good head on his shoulders who still cares about something in his life including himself and his own needs 
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You are wise looking for someone like that. I hope you find him.
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You are wise looking for someone like that. I hope you find him.
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A lot of what you say is true. A lot of men and women have hostile baggage their caring. But its not just the over 50 crowd, most people have had at least one bad relationship. I see a lot of 30 and 40 year old profiles reflecting this. I also see a lot of 20 to 40 year old people on this site that out of shape as well. So lets not single out the 50+ people. no it can be true at any age just saying that the prevalence tends to increase along with age I am not even saying I am opposed to dating someone older than I am just would have to be someone with a good head on his shoulders who still cares about something in his life including himself and his own needs
 Pick me! Pick me! I can still fit into my Dress Blues almost 40 years later. And the button holes don't stretch! I can even help with your Psych homework. (and I don't have to worry you'll turn green, again.  )
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A lot of what you say is true. A lot of men and women have hostile baggage their caring. But its not just the over 50 crowd, most people have had at least one bad relationship. I see a lot of 30 and 40 year old profiles reflecting this. I also see a lot of 20 to 40 year old people on this site that out of shape as well. So lets not single out the 50+ people. no it can be true at any age just saying that the prevalence tends to increase along with age I am not even saying I am opposed to dating someone older than I am just would have to be someone with a good head on his shoulders who still cares about something in his life including himself and his own needs
Pick me! Pick me! I can still fit into my Dress Blues almost 40 years later. And the button holes don't stretch! I can even help with your Psych homework. (and I don't have to worry you'll turn green, again. )
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Why, doing prep work at an Aberrant Psychology workshop in the sincere hope that you might ask that very question, Dear.
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Why, doing prep work at an Aberrant Psychology workshop in the sincere hope that you might ask that very question, Dear.
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here is an example of what I see with guys over age of...54 does not exercise on regular basis has health issues often times carrying a lot of hostile baggage towards women that comes across in his profile says he likes to eat at home most of time says he likes to travel but also says he has not done so because he is alone often times the profiles sound like they are written by someone depressed who hates his life |
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Edited by
TMommy
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Fri 05/01/15 06:08 AM
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here is an example of what I see with guys over age of...54 does not exercise on regular basis has health issues often times carrying a lot of hostile baggage towards women that comes across in his profile says he likes to eat at home most of time says he likes to travel but also says he has not done so because he is alone often times the profiles sound like they are written by someone depressed who hates his life it's like a mass memo that goes out to everyone by about 45 or something
I am not perfect and in no way am I saying that I am but it would be nice to find someone who still has a bit of hope still has interests, goals to look forward to still trying |
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here is an example of what I see with guys over age of...54 does not exercise on regular basis has health issues often times carrying a lot of hostile baggage towards women that comes across in his profile says he likes to eat at home most of time says he likes to travel but also says he has not done so because he is alone often times the profiles sound like they are written by someone depressed who hates his life What makes this sad to me is that some of those negative profiles are hiding really great people... I hear some talk about how they are older and wiser so they know what they "don't" want but I be damned if they know what they "do" want. Life is too short to worry about the negativity just go with the flow. I have read some really great profiles out here of men...sorry ladies I don't perve yours.. I always drop a note in them to say great job... I prefer to try to keep body in shape not so much for the looks as the health issues I want to do things in life I have worked damn hard to be able to play now I want to enjoy the playtime. |
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NEGATIVITY IN PROFILES
shoot this deserves it's own thread you know how much I see of this ? especially after being married a time or two and going thru bad break ups we have a lot of things WE DON'T put up with anymore and that is all fine and dandy andy but... when you list it off in your profile one by one you come across as bitter, hostile I wish more people knew this best foot forward people would get you a lot more responses
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Edited by
JustScribbles
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NEGATIVITY IN PROFILES shoot this deserves it's own thread you know how much I see of this ? especially after being married a time or two and going thru bad break ups we have a lot of things WE DON'T put up with anymore and that is all fine and dandy andy but... when you list it off in your profile one by one you come across as bitter, hostile I wish more people knew this best foot forward people would get you a lot more responses
Amen! There's certainly a time and place for 'pity parties' but it just doesn't make any sense to me why someone would log into a dating site, put up an 'Oh, woe is me' profile, post multiple 'nobody wants me' entries and in the next breath - seriously and honestly - say things like 'Why is nobody knocking down my door to hook up?' *scratches my head* I've stolen these lyrics from a song, before ~ 'These are surely not the best colors that you shine.' 
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