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I found a list, I don't think any of the signs by themself mean anything but certainly if there are three or more,,, 1.looks you in the eye 2.finds any excuse to talk to you 3.Perks up when he sees you 4. Stays close to you 5. Touches you 6. Stumbles over himself 7. Lets his friends go on without him(BIG SIGN) 8. Asks about you 9..Becomes chatty( actually listens and responds to what you say with follow up questions and comments) 10. leans in close when he speaks I will agree with 3 and 7. Number 9 is null and void because you ladies know we never listen. |
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Goof here....with some tips on how to recognize flirting...(from a male perspective). If a guy sees you every day, or every other day, or hell...maybe once a week....and he goes out of his way to say hello, to chit chat, or just smile....well then he is flirting and into you. If same said guy mentioned above saw you about once a week, but then you notice he is going out of his way to see you more consistently....well he is flirting and into you....or he could be a stalker (you know, if you notice he is licking windows or just stares at you without saying anything). If a guy walks up to you (say in a bar, or in the park) and he is laying the lines on thick.....eh....he wants to nail you. And watch out for those dudes who, when they come around you they have raging boners. They could eventually turn into those "Sleeping with the enemy" type of guy....you know the one. The guy who, when you don't hang the towels right, or burn the meat, they smack you. And then you fake your death trying to get away but he ends up finding you in like some foreign village....but before he can do anything he gets killed by a stampede of koala bears.....okay this went off the rails pretty quick.....but you get my meaning. Great tips - got my koalas at the ready good advice but now Iam scared to flirt back I don't really need a stalker..lol..what happened to the days when you just checked the yes or no box |
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I found a list, I don't think any of the signs by themself mean anything but certainly if there are three or more,,, 1.looks you in the eye 2.finds any excuse to talk to you 3.Perks up when he sees you 4. Stays close to you 5. Touches you 6. Stumbles over himself 7. Lets his friends go on without him(BIG SIGN) 8. Asks about you 9..Becomes chatty( actually listens and responds to what you say with follow up questions and comments) 10. leans in close when he speaks five would creep me out I hate being touched by strangers & Ten I really don't like people invading my space. but I can dealo with the rest |
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Sometimes shy guys or what I like to call reserved, my favorite, are more subtle and watch from afar. If some one is asking about you or is smoothing your path towards a goal you want he may be flirting with you. If he goes out of his way to thank you or see to it you get credit for something well done then he is probably interested. Men are generally competitive creatures if they let you win they are wanting you to notice them. Generally speaking if you have notice them they have created the opportunity and are at least mildly interested. Not jumping at every little sign makes the chase last a little longer but usually worth the wait and see attitude because if they are not really interested in you the person they will move on to easier quarry.
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I found a list, I don't think any of the signs by themself mean anything but certainly if there are three or more,,, 1.looks you in the eye 2.finds any excuse to talk to you 3.Perks up when he sees you 4. Stays close to you 5. Touches you 6. Stumbles over himself 7. Lets his friends go on without him(BIG SIGN) 8. Asks about you 9..Becomes chatty( actually listens and responds to what you say with follow up questions and comments) 10. leans in close when he speaks five would creep me out I hate being touched by strangers & Ten I really don't like people invading my space. but I can dealo with the rest I agree with you 100% on this list. I don't like #4 or #5 either.. too intrusive to the point of being violated. Can you image if women did #4 & #5.? It would be chaos! But I would love to see women bosses, teachers or any women authority figures do it to men. like some men do to us. * Movie idea * |
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