spelling it wrong
getting the wrong idea like porcupines
a prospective date or future inlaw asks some nosy question that does not dignify an answer because it is really no one's business. I was taught to heal by expressing and yet keeping in my comfort circle
sharing when I WANT TO
not when I am told to
sometimes people ask because they want to know and show their pain
and sometimes the pain is too much for them without sharing
so okay then
as long as it is not attacking me
I am there to listen
and I learn not to always be quick to judge the "judgers."