if your reading this. I'm a good guy who's had his heart broken too many times. I'm looking for a good, honest, down to earth woman to maybe take to dinner or movie or just go for a walk, just hang out with. If we click great if not no hard feelings.

Dude, no offense, but I am a real loser when it comes to love. As a loser because I was afraid of rejection. The biggest lesson that I learned on Mingle is that rejection is not the end of the world. A funny thing is that if you get rejected enough then it is not really all that painful. I think and I may be wrong, but if you want to meet a pretty woman, just go for it. She tells you to take a hike, then do it to the next pretty woman. Eventually one of the awesome ladies will cherish you. I have learned if you take the passive route, well it may be a long time. It kind of works the same way when you look for a job. You look like a good looking guy (no I am not gay) and you probably will have no problem. Am I a player, hardly. I have met some nice ladies online, and actually have met some real nice ladies off the site. Ironically the first thing when I joined Mingle is that I wrote a real pretty lady who I knew that would reject me, she did and I survived. I hope that you are nice to women, and I hope that you have a fun time on here. Take care and God bless.

cracker

ok.. word from the wise...wise being ME.... leave your topic just how it is.... its like a fishing rod.... sluts have seen it, therefore no reply... which is a good thing. but when honest beautiful women who are looking for the same thing you are see that post they will stop, hence MYSELF. LOL theres just not many of us on sites like this so it may seem discouraging. dnt even worry about it. more advice.... change your pics.... we skip you u even if you seem perfect we wonder to ourselves...."why would he post pics and i cant see his face" then we move along. so post clear pics of your face this is what women want to see. good luck!