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PaulaMcke · 2015-04-04T12:40:29-07:00

Whilst I totally understand why some people, me included, may feel a little uncomfortable joining sites such as this I would like to say that from my point of view it seems pointless to sig up if you aren't prepared to initially share some information. Leaving a profile with "I'll tell you later" and the rest unanswered is an immediate turnoff. It's good to see if you have something in common with a person before sending messages and wasting time. Just a thought.

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PaulaMcke Joined Fri 03/27/15 Posts: 8	Sat 04/04/15 12:38 PM
Whilst I totally understand why some people, me included, may feel a little uncomfortable joining sites such as this I would like to say that from my point of view it seems pointless to sig up if you aren't prepared to initially share some information. Leaving a profile with "I'll tell you later" and the rest unanswered is an immediate turnoff. It's good to see if you have something in common with a person before sending messages and wasting time. Just a thought.

mom333 Joined Sun 06/15/14 Posts: 1238	Sat 04/04/15 12:44 PM
i think that too. especially in the about yourself bit.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sat 04/04/15 01:15 PM
Not everyone here is looking to date. Some are only here for friends and forums. Plain and simple...by pass those profile

PaulaMcke Joined Fri 03/27/15 Posts: 8	Sat 04/04/15 02:32 PM
True as I'm not necessarily interesed primarily in just a date but even to start up a conversation it would be nice to see if there are common interests to start a conversation about instead of having to start off asking lots of questions which can come across as quite intrusive. A little information would be useful.

PaulaMcke Joined Fri 03/27/15 Posts: 8	Sat 04/04/15 02:34 PM
Yes I agree. A picture isn't as important as what common interests etc you might share.

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Sat 04/04/15 02:42 PM
True as I'm not necessarily interesed primarily in just a date but even to start up a conversation it would be nice to see if there are common interests to start a conversation about instead of having to start off asking lots of questions which can come across as quite intrusive. A little information would be useful. Yes, yes and yes....but still the majority of newbies want real friends, instant relationships and intimate encounters without giving up one iota of themselves....what are they thinking...

marcol1 Joined Sat 03/28/15 Posts: 71	Sat 04/04/15 06:52 PM
True as I'm not necessarily interesed primarily in just a date but even to start up a conversation it would be nice to see if there are common interests to start a conversation about instead of having to start off asking lots of questions which can come across as quite intrusive. A little information would be useful. Yes, yes and yes....but still the majority of newbies want real friends, instant relationships and intimate encounters without giving up one iota of themselves....what are they thinking... [/quote instant gratifacation

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Sat 04/04/15 07:01 PM
One of the biggest turn off for me is the ones that say Hey beautiful... and nothing else. I have the same thought process A I am not beautiful nor am I ugly I am average. B what else about me do you like ... Talk to me about some of my interests...

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 04/04/15 07:03 PM
Not everyone here is looking to date. Some are only here for friends and forums. Plain and simple...by pass those profile . and some of us are looking for even more..

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