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CHILD: By; Freddie Aguilar
When you were born into this world Your mom and dad saw a dream fulfilled Dream come true The answer to their prayers You were to them a special child Gave'em joy every time you smiled Each time you cried They're at your side to care Child, you don't know You'll never know how far they'd go To give you all their love can give To see you through and God it's true They'd die for you, if they must,to see you live How many seasons came and went So many years have now been spent For time ran fast And now at last you're strong Child you don't know You'll never know how far they'd go To give you all their love can,give To see you through and God it's true They'd die for you, if they must, to see you live And now your path has gone astray Child you ain't sure what to do or say You're so alone No friends are on your side And child you now break down in tears Let them drive away your fears Where must you go Their arms stay open wide Child you don't know You'll never know how far they'd go To give you all their love can give To see you through and God it's true They'd die for you, if they must, to see you live Child you don't know You'll never know how far they'd go To give you all their love can give To see you through and God it's true They'd die for you, if they must, to see you live It is their obligation and mission to direct their children on the right way. After the mission successfully accomplished they can die happily with smile on their face. |
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I don't think it is true for all people but when I had my kid or fell in love with my adopted son it went to the very core of my being.
I felt joy and pain like I had never felt before. You see life through your kids eyes, feel through their heart/soul it is so greater than the universe it is kind of like trying to explain physics with a toddler vocabulary. I would go to my death in a New York second if it meant saving either of my kids. I have done with out food, water, shelter, friends, family, medical care and left every possession I owned at risk to get to my kids or something they needed. And I would do it again. It is not to brag because so what I think most parents would and have done it. It is just to say that when you become a parent it just means more than self. Don't get me wrong I don't see it is always the best thing for kids to see that but if you want hem to truly be secure I think you have to be able to go all the way if and when it is called for. I sure don't think there is anything else in the world worth doing it for. And I have gotten to do some pretty cool things in my life. |
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Ohhh... you mean we are not supposed to.. make them our little minions... our personal little servants..
.ohhhh... ... well if they make my coffee just right and bring it to me... and then rub my sore aching feet...ohhhwell... I guess I can squeeze out just a little love.. |
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All my kids are grown up I miss having them around and I babysit alot. I personal think I am over babies when they cry I want to run and do until the parents come back lol
Any school age kids send them my way. Having them is an excuse to do thing only kids can do without myself looking stupid lol. People say "ooh that's nice, mum is having fun with her kids". Party time woohoo |
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My children are my world
always have been and always will be |
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i always wonder what makes parents to love their kids so much that they turn almost impossible things to possible for their kids. Because my kids are parts of mine |
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And yet, 'they' truly love & care for 'their' children - 'Reason(s)' Best known to themselves! |
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And yet, 'they' truly love & care for 'their' children - 'Reason(s)' Best known to themselves! This always hurts my soul because too many times Dad's, and many Mom's, are given heck for being "absent" when they are out working one, two , sometimes more jobs to keep the roof over the heads of the family and them in the lifestyle they want. Even if it works them down to nothing. But we tell kids they are entitled to it all and parents are suppose to be miracle workers rather than mear mortals. Not to say a few elders don't deserve the silent treatment they get but if you were raised "My way or the Highway/ No Crybaby;s ect." " then the apple has a hard time falling too far from the tree. |
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Edited by
Leigh2154
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Mon 06/01/15 10:21 PM
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i always wonder what makes parents to love their kids so much that they turn almost impossible things to possible for their kids. I love my daughter because.... She is a part of me...Our bond was formed in the womb, as if my magic I stopped thinking about me and started thinking about her...As she grew inside me, I grew too...She became my call to action, my anchor...She made me want to be the best I could be...Because of her, I embraced my womanhood in a different way, a deeper, more profound way..She taught me strength...She taught me tolerance... Because of her, I just love better... |
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because they are mine, and i love them...
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Before I had my daughter I always thought it was cheesy when people said stuff like "I didn't know it was possible to love someone so much until I had my baby" but it is true!! It is the most amazing,painful,scary, unbelievable, indescribable, and beautiful kind of love!! The moment you look into those beautiful little eyes you completely understand what all those "cheesy parents" are talking about. Its amazing and beautiful because there are moments where they want nobody else except mommy or daddy, moments where you are the only one that can heal their boo boos with a kiss, moments when it feels like the world has come crashing down on you until you look at them and realize that the rest of the world doesn't matter because you have the most important little person in your world. Its scary because you are responsible for not only yourself but another human being. Its your job to make sure they use their manners and have respect for other people. Its your job to make sure they grow up with good morals and character. Its also scary because every decision you make has to revolve around them! You have to make sure its not going to hurt them or make there life more difficult not only in that moment but also in the future, but you also have to realize that something that may hurt them in the moment could be better for them in the long run. Its painful because sometimes they wake up in the middle of the night crying because they are having a bad dream and there is nothing you can do to take that scared feeling away but hold them. There are times that people in their life that will hurt them and there is nothing you can do to take that pain away so you feel bad and hurt that they are hurting. It can also be pretty patient trying there are times when you just want to pull your hair out because they are not listening for anything!!! But its all worth it. You do what you have to do to make sure they have what they need and grow up to be the amazing people their going to be. You do everything in your power to protect them from bad things and bad situations. Although this seems like a book it still doesn't begin to describe the amazing joy and love that you have for them or they have for you, but I hope it gives you a little incite to what its like to love your kids.
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Children are special in so many ways. They bring unfathomable joy into your life and make you realize an unconditional love which cannot be described in words! Those who have not known what it's like cannot even imagine such love IMHO! It is the utmost in giving your life to the care of others without expectation of payment but just from sheer love! A heart which loves a child is the greatest gift one can receive!
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I knew my mom loved me. I wasn't really raise by my mom but I knew she love me all the same.Because she would not have give me to a grandmother if she had not love me in the very beginning. In doing so I had two mother in way. And well for first time I had a father that was actually my grandfather. But my real father did not care about me or know how to a love me? I know it might sound silly to those who already mother and father. But that is point of view on things.
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I can honestly say I would die for my kids, I would do anything in the world for them. and that's because its pure love, my kids are the only ones that see me in the morning with a face full of anti wrinkle cream and rollers, and they still love me, there the only ones to see me crying to sad films and they still love me, there the only ones to see me stuffing my face with (im going to say celery sticks when I really mean Dorito's so I don't sound like a pig) celery sticks and still love me there the only ones that see me dancing and singing with a hairbrush in the mornings and they STILL love me. its unconditional love and its the best. i meant to ask is there some internal feeling..do u feel their pain?? do u feel connected to them when they are not with you?? do u feel that they are your own part of the soul. I've been reading this when i have time, and i believe this to be true. I know you can love someone so much that your (heart) literally hurts. |
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This always hurts my soul because too many times Dad's, and many Mom's, are given heck for being "absent" when they are out working one, two , sometimes more jobs to keep the roof over the heads of the family and them in the lifestyle they want. Even if it works them down to nothing. But we tell kids they are entitled to it all and parents are suppose to be miracle workers rather than mear mortals.
Not to say a few elders don't deserve the silent treatment they get but if you were raised "My way or the Highway/ No Crybaby;s ect." " then the apple has a hard time falling too far from the tree. I can understand... |
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