Topic: How to know if im inlove with him? | |
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Time freezes
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Ask yourself "What do I appreciate about him?"
If the answers are primarily physical traits - his face, his hair, his body, the way he makes you physically feel - then that's lust, not love. If the answers are primarily things like his emotional responses to things, his ability to hold a conversation, the way he makes you feel emotionally, his level of intellect and education, his attitudes about things you have in common (or, more important, his attitudes about things you disagree on), then that's probably love. |
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Ask yourself "What do I appreciate about him?" If the answers are primarily physical traits - his face, his hair, his body, the way he makes you physically feel - then that's lust, not love. If the answers are primarily things like his emotional responses to things, his ability to hold a conversation, the way he makes you feel emotionally, his level of intellect and education, his attitudes about things you have in common (or, more important, his attitudes about things you disagree on), then that's probably love. the guy im talking about always hugs me in school and because of dat.. One time i felt something evertym hr hugs me and i just cant explain it and now i keep on thinking the way he hugs me and wen i saw couples hugging .. I remember him and i dont know why.. And really happens often.. |
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?? When you don't have to ask..... |
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?? When you don't have to ask..... winner |
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how do you know when you're in love?
what are his strong points? what are his flaws? what makes you like him anyway when you look at the whole person. I've read many of your topics. I think it's infatuation and obsessive. I have many friends both male and female who greet me with a hug. while I have love for them, I'm not in love with them. |
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how do you know when you're in love? what are his strong points? what are his flaws? what makes you like him anyway when you look at the whole person. I've read many of your topics. I think it's infatuation and obsessive. I have many friends both male and female who greet me with a hug. while I have love for them, I'm not in love with them. but his hug for me is different from how he hugs our other classmates. And that makes me confused.. When he hugs me he stops for a while then hugs me again more than 3 times perhaps but even ones he never tell me that he likes me... :( |
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how do you know when you're in love? what are his strong points? what are his flaws? what makes you like him anyway when you look at the whole person. I've read many of your topics. I think it's infatuation and obsessive. I have many friends both male and female who greet me with a hug. while I have love for them, I'm not in love with them. but his hug for me is different from how he hugs our other classmates. And that makes me confused.. When he hugs me he stops for a while then hugs me again more than 3 times perhaps but even ones he never tell me that he likes me... :( what do you have in common? what are the draws you to him? how do you know he's not just being a perv? any guy can play the game, hold you to feel you but feel nothing other than some physical attraction. what more is there than him hugging you? |
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A hug??? That's it
Try not and fall in love with a man ,based just on a hug..or him touching you...you will end up hurt. There is way more to love...consider this thought.. Evaluate it on everything but physical contact |
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He helps me in doing our projects and the worst is kiss my head while hugging me.. I dont know but i just can't tell him and ask him why is he doing it to me
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When you bake him a pie.
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as 2K said. evaluate it on the physical.
I've asked you this already, what do you have in common? what ideals do you share? what do you admire about him? what are his flaws and what makes you like him in spite of that? |
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as 2K said. evaluate it on the physical. I've asked you this already, what do you have in common? what ideals do you share? what do you admire about him? what are his flaws and what makes you like him in spite of that? he is kind , handsome he is very different from me .. We dont evn have any in common .. Dats why im getting confused.. Just because of his hug .. I just cant confused of what i felt for him.. |
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as 2K said. evaluate it on the physical. I've asked you this already, what do you have in common? what ideals do you share? what do you admire about him? what are his flaws and what makes you like him in spite of that? he is kind , handsome he is very different from me .. We dont evn have any in common .. Dats why im getting confused.. Just because of his hug .. I just cant confused of what i felt for him.. OP no offense ... take a chill out time you think you might be in love because of a hug.. One hug doesn't make love what is makes IMO is lust... Take sometime how well do you know him? How many dates have you had? How much time have you spent with him? Have you even had an argument with him yet? |
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Is he the same who you refer in your other thread- "love" ?
Then follow my advice |
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as 2K said. evaluate it on the physical. I've asked you this already, what do you have in common? what ideals do you share? what do you admire about him? what are his flaws and what makes you like him in spite of that? he is kind , handsome he is very different from me .. We dont evn have any in common .. Dats why im getting confused.. Just because of his hug .. I just cant confused of what i felt for him.. you don't have anything in common but his hug is different? imo it's lust. nothing of substance. maybe even just an illusion on your part |
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?? When you don't have to ask..... Word! ps; Here's a clue; you're not |
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Edited by
Valeris
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Thu 04/02/15 09:43 PM
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hihow r u
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