Topic: why women cheat??
markc48's photo
Fri 04/10/15 09:33 PM
Damn those cheating 12 year olds. Really

blueandsilver1969's photo
Wed 04/15/15 02:55 AM
You are so Right. I gotta agree w her!!!!

dan_edsell's photo
Wed 04/15/15 03:07 AM
I think they are not loved at home,its to recreat what they think they lost,or to find new love,irregardles,thr consaquinces,ther trying to move on,maby they need to divorce first ,don't you think.to ease the pain ,they cause,,,men and wemon,both,need to think,first...and realize,its not ok,,,right

prithvii1989's photo
Tue 04/21/15 08:05 AM

I think they are not loved at home,its to recreat what they think they lost,or to find new love,irregardles,thr consaquinces,ther trying to move on,maby they need to divorce first ,don't you think.to ease the pain ,they cause,,,men and wemon,both,need to think,first...and realize,its not ok,,,right


totally agreed.

Jhavez's photo
Wed 04/22/15 11:13 PM

any reasons???


Cause they are slime. mad

no photo
Wed 04/22/15 11:14 PM
shocked

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Sat 04/25/15 04:30 PM
As in my case, the intimate needs are not being met at home. I am not saying that is an excuse but it is difficult when you really love someone and have talked to them on several occasions that you would really enjoy engaging in sex more than once a week and it falls on deaf ears. In fact she often acts like a prude at times and makes me feel as if I am some pervert or sex addict and we are married. How messed up is that?

no photo
Sun 04/26/15 09:09 AM
Hey, this is so unfair. Men also cheat. I suggest changing the question to 'why do people cheat?' Lol drinks

TMommy's photo
Sun 04/26/15 09:17 AM
Edited by TMommy on Sun 04/26/15 09:21 AM

As in my case, the intimate needs are not being met at home. I am not saying that is an excuse but it is difficult when you really love someone and have talked to them on several occasions that you would really enjoy engaging in sex more than once a week and it falls on deaf ears. In fact she often acts like a prude at times and makes me feel as if I am some pervert or sex addict and we are married. How messed up is that?



could be hormonal
might be messing with her libido
could be exhaustion mental or physical if she is working long hours
taking care of kids and home
could be emotional
if she does not feel emotionally close to you
she may not feel over obliged to get physically close to you


this happens more than people like to admit
especially with couples who have been together a long time
no one likes to talk about this
because you feel like a shallow person
you love your spouse, you have kids and a life and a history together
you have built this home and family together

but no one likes to get turned down over and over again
or have a partner that will give in once in awhile
while hemming and hawing like it's huge aggravation to them

sex is not THE most important of a marriage but it is supposed to be in there somewhere

have you thought of counseling and would your wife go with you?

msharmony's photo
Sun 04/26/15 09:33 AM
since womens lib its clear anything men can do women can do

cheaters are cheaters,, their potential reasons don't change due to gender and can include

boredom
selfishness
lack of self control
fear of divorce or separation or retaliation for leaving
lack of resources to leave
or the one I believe is most often the case

BECAUSE THEY CAN

no photo
Sun 04/26/15 09:39 AM
People cheat because they don't love the person they're with. There's no other excuses.

TMommy's photo
Sun 04/26/15 09:43 AM
whether it be a man or a woman

some do it for the thrill to see if they can
for the challenge and secret naughtiness of it


some do it to fulfill sexual urges that the spouse is has said no to

some do it because they are missing that attention


some do it because they do not want to lose the home and financial security so they stay in a less than ideal situation


salsaforlove's photo
Sun 04/26/15 10:43 AM
They cheat because out of 9 lives they live only 1 life while men live up to 7. They want to catch up with men

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Sun 04/26/15 11:11 AM
Women cheat because they are looking for someone better to move on with.

mysticalview21's photo
Sun 04/26/15 02:17 PM


OMG I DIDNT KNOW I WAS BEING GRADED ON THIS! whoa oops

But now that I do.....bigsmile

woman cheat because they are low down, snakes, in the grass, cold blooded serpents, that only live to please themselves, and give a rats azz about anyone else, and we suck!pitchfork grumble mad

(was that detailed enough?)laugh laugh laugh laugh

Oh and BTW I dont cheat.:angel:


that's rude..anyways love you because u dnt cheat.

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh




rofl rofl I found myself cheating because they where cheating on me ... I have said that is no excuse ... but no matter what you say or do to make a relationship work and nothing works... you start to feel like a maid or their mother ... and loose all respect for them ... and if some one else gives you that attention you have not been getting at home ... then you move on or cheat ... and I believe that may be why men do also ... bored with the person they are with and not getting much at home ... but never was a sex thing with me... like I have to have ... more of a feeling of this attention is nice ... something gone from a relationship ...

no1phD's photo
Sun 04/26/15 02:18 PM
take it from me! women are worse than men... much much worse..:angel: slaphead

mysticalview21's photo
Sun 04/26/15 02:24 PM

take it from me! women are worse than men... much much worse..:angel: slaphead



your lucky you have a cute dog Mr ... lmao

JustScribbles's photo
Sun 04/26/15 02:25 PM
Edited by JustScribbles on Sun 04/26/15 02:29 PM
The only thing I'd add to what's been said is: Cheating is a weapon that gets used when the consequences no longer matter. At its most elemental level - 'Hurray for me and to hell with you.'

no1phD's photo
Sun 04/26/15 02:27 PM
it has nothing to do with the dog..lol..
the stories I could tell you about the way women conduct . themselves..
before I started dating again I thought men were the bad guys....
.. sleeping around cheating... giving themselves over on the first date...


. boy was I wrong....... women are worse...then men..laugh :wink: :angel:

mysticalview21's photo
Sun 04/26/15 02:29 PM

it has nothing to do with the dog..lol..
the stories I could tell you about the way women conduct . themselves..
before I started dating again I thought men were the bad guys....
.. sleeping around cheating... giving themselves over on the first date...


. boy was I wrong....... women are worse...then men..laugh :wink: :angel:
laugh