I have lived away from family for a long time, I have always struggled alone.but now I have to take on another challenge which includes many but also being away from the loved ones. I feel very alone and defeated. I know its going to be very tough but I know I will not break.just sharing .how would you deal when you feel you are not enough and you feel defeated.

hi, think of robert the bruce as he watched the spider climb the wall.micheen1.prayer is some times the greatest help.

Welcome to Mingle. Well all my family immigrated to Australia and I have stayed in New Zealand, so I understand the loneliness you must feel. Noone can compare to your weird famdamily! You take it day by day, and wait for those special people to come into your life, who begin as friends and end up being like family. Sending you hugs from New Zealand.

I do watch alot of motivational content to keep up my drive but sometimes you do feel weak.and yes I agree prayer is a better option.thanks

Thank you. I agree patience pays off.but how to take it day by day.

Do you skype your family or ring them?

May I ask what do you mean in your title by not being enough?

No I don't do that. Not used to that

Hi, I read a bit of your profile. I'm just assuming certain things based on what I read, and I hope my two cents makes sense...

Sometimes work and training can be very challenging. there are days when you can feel so discouraged by what your superiors say, especially when you can't live up to what's expected. Not everyone can completely understand what you might be going through, sometomes not even family can completely get it.

Life can be difficult, and being overwhelmed can leave one feeling alone and vulnerable.

Try to change your perspective on things, it might help. Take criticisms as a challenge to do better, so that you won't be discouraged. Take any defeat as an opportunity to experience and learn things that may help you in the future. Most of all, try to remain to be thankful for everything. Things happen for a reason. What may bring you hardships and tears now, may be the source of blessings in the future. Just keep being a good person, and don't trade in your principles and integrity when the tough decisions come along. Things will work out. God will see you through.

All the best

Think of the lost souls on that plane a few days ago and count your blessings.

Not being enough means fear of the future, not being able to be there ,to achieve goals.because most people believe that I am insufficient.

Thank you so much for your thoughts.I really appreciate nd feel loved.You are right that everything happens for a reason.
I also want to know what you do when you find yourself in such a condition.and my question is for anyone who reads this thread

Hang in there, OP. I just saw your friend request. I will add you when I am on my comp. I have several pending requests from this forum. Please be patient with me, Minglers.

Okay.