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Topic: What Men Want?
Happiness2U Joined Thu 06/19/14 Posts: 2504	Thu 03/26/15 04:25 PM
I'm quiet...and sweet...unless I start laughing... Cheers Joe!

JLaDawn Joined Mon 03/09/15 Posts: 65	Thu 03/26/15 04:28 PM
What men really want from women? What men think? Why are some guys attracted to bitchy girls and the nice ones always get hurt? Why do some men find bitchy women attractive or a turn on? I want serious answers only, if you don't believe it's possible don't answer it. Some forum posters really get on my nerves. What? THAT'S what I've been doing wrong? JL, please, don't you become biatchy too, it's not every guys cup of tea. Most guys, and I say most, just want a woman to be quiet while the game's on TV Well shuckydarns....I'm doing that wrong too? Mebbe if the QB cld throw the ball I cld stay church mouse quiet.......Mebbe.

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Thu 03/26/15 04:31 PM
how about a woman who doesn't expect me to be a mind reader some one how communicates in PLAIN language

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Thu 03/26/15 04:34 PM
how about a woman who doesn't expect me to be a mind reader some one how communicates in PLAIN language I agree totally. You know what gets to me. When a woman goes shopping and leaves a load of washing in the machine. Then when she returns home she goes crazy because the washing is still in the machine. Like men are supposed to know that it needs to go in the dryer, I mean WTF

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Thu 03/26/15 04:38 PM
how about a woman who doesn't expect me to be a mind reader some one how communicates in PLAIN language i know what your saying but communication goes both ways,if she really loves me she will know what my likes wants and needs are....

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Thu 03/26/15 05:02 PM
How does that go again? Men are Martians, women are Venus Goddesses.

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Thu 03/26/15 05:12 PM
How does that go again? Men are Martians, women are Venus Goddesses. something like that..better thin calling us dogs,,LOL

Daniel7961 Joined Thu 03/19/15 Posts: 1	Fri 03/27/15 12:12 PM
They want drama. The more drama the better the sex is in their mind. That is why a man has a lower threshold for attraction. That's how a bitchy girl gets a guy and a nice girl sits home alone.

WonderWoman48 Joined Tue 01/27/15 Posts: 1560	Fri 03/27/15 12:29 PM
They want drama. The more drama the better the sex is in their mind. That is why a man has a lower threshold for attraction. That's how a bitchy girl gets a guy and a nice girl sits home alone. Thanks for your honest answer! Many men don't have the balls to tell the truth.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Fri 03/27/15 12:34 PM
They want drama. The more drama the better the sex is in their mind. That is why a man has a lower threshold for attraction. That's how a bitchy girl gets a guy and a nice girl sits home alone. Thanks for your honest answer! Many men don't have the balls to tell the truth. Ah, so generalizing = having balls. Good to know.

JLaDawn Joined Mon 03/09/15 Posts: 65	Fri 03/27/15 12:36 PM
They want drama. The more drama the better the sex is in their mind. That is why a man has a lower threshold for attraction. That's how a bitchy girl gets a guy and a nice girl sits home alone. I'd say these men have a personal problem. ... and I'm sure glad they are looking for bitchy women so I don't have to worry about their dumbasses pursuing me.

Kaustuv1 Joined Thu 03/27/14 Posts: 4365	Fri 03/27/15 12:41 PM
'Most' men dream of finding a partner ('a woman', obviously ), with whom, 'he' might 'RISE' in love, life and friendship!

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Fri 03/27/15 12:48 PM
If you study the basic nature of attraction, sometimes it is simply whatever gets attention. Whether it is the bitchy girl or the brash guy, if the person can get and keep your attention, half the battle is already won. It may not pan out in the long run, but it sure gets the date in the short run.

DadCat Joined Thu 02/12/15 Posts: 501	Fri 03/27/15 10:33 PM
In fairness to a certain poster in these forums who is repeatedly accused of misandry, there are many generalizations being made in this thread. Some of the posters should remember to use proper contexts when referring to men. Thank you.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Fri 03/27/15 10:42 PM Edited by dreamerana on Fri 03/27/15 10:43 PM
men want to he same thing women want. simply to be loved

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Fri 03/27/15 10:53 PM
Really? I thought they wanted sex, sports and beer. Huh?

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Fri 03/27/15 10:53 PM
It could be that men like bitchy women because then they will feel less guilty for revealing that they are complete jackasses later on when they let their guards down. With a nice girl they have to put up an act for longer. Maybe that's why nice girls get hurt more because their attachment has long since set in before the guy starts being a real creep. This is my diagnosis of man's psych disturbance only from a topical viewpoint, I still don't know what lies beneath man's deep issues with nature and life and their obsession with destruction and power. Probably something to do with the one thing they do not want to face; death. In summary, men are afraid of death and that's why they like bitchy women.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sat 03/28/15 01:35 AM
men want to he same thing women want. simply to be loved You are dead on right. I think some men go for the bitchy type because they view it as a challenge to calm and win over what other men walked away from. Myself I will take a mature, calm, and nice woman any day.

zzzippy56 Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 7307	Sat 03/28/15 01:45 AM
men want to he same thing women want. simply to be loved You are dead on right. I think some men go for the bitchy type because they view it as a challenge to calm and win over what other men walked away from. Myself I will take a mature, calm, and nice woman any day. So true Ana...... All those other things can be bought.... But love is from first bonding on many levels

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Sat 03/28/15 02:13 AM
Men who see a bitchy women as a challenge can't wait to get her under his control, but a man is no better if he prefers a nice woman because she will be easier to control. Next question is why do most men want to control women so much?