Sexiass: sometimes when you're not looking he appears not of nowhere. I don't know what's wrong with some of these guys. From where I'm sitting, there isn't a damn thing wrong with you -- you are very pretty. Sometimes alone time is good. Don't worry he's out there going through the same thing you are. He'll show up hon -- be patient; it will be worth the wait.

I have to agree with sin and Ms...for one, you are only 19, you have a long life ahead of you and you should hold your head up above the clouds. You are a beautiful young lady and you shouldn't be rushing it. As far as your name goes, I would change it, because it is like so many young girls now, that wear skimpy clothes and want to know why they got raped. Don't advertise sweetie, give yourself some respect. If you don't treat yourself like trash, you won't be getting the trashy one nite standers. I was in a 21 yr marriage and it ended 2 yrs ago...try that for lonliness. And now, I am not trying to rush things...someone will be out there someday for you.

hi. no there's nothing wrong with you. i know how u feel because i have felt that way quite a bit myself here lately after my divorce. i wouldn't worry about those guys though, you don't really need anyone who only wants a one night stand anyways. you are young and u do have plenty of time to find someone. just be patient. it will come, it just takes time. best of luck to u
Becca

I have to agree from what I read what Jess said. She is right on. I have been out of a long term relationship since November and I am not completely out of it. I am friends with my ex, although what I seek is so much greater than just finding someone. It will all happen just as it needs to. When you are young, you do not understand that another person is not going to complete you. You need to be complete before you are ready to have that special someone in your life.

Nobody cares for the needy, and the needy gets used. Men are hunters, and the vulnerable are easy pickings to feast upon. Therefore you have to work on that first. Single for 4 months is nothing. If you are concerned with that, then perhaps you should find yourself a hobby. Discover your passions and explore yourself. Learn to be able to be alone and get to know yourself better. When you become independent, then you can share your life with someone. You want to share your life with someone, not build your life with someone. For if things should not work out, then what you have built will fall and leave you with nothing. Don't be fooled by the media's idea of love, it is a lie.

Don't ask yourself "why aren't I good enough". Ask yourself what kind of person you'd like to become and focus on that. If you focus on being who you want to be I'm certain you'll start attracting the "right" type of people.

If a guy's a dud, it's a reflection of HIM and NOT of you.

Good luck!

WELL I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD JUST CHILL ON TRYING TO RUSH INTO A RELATIONSHIP...LET THE GUYS COME TO YOU AND LET THINGS FALL INTO PLACE!