why is it when woman say they are tired of hearing chezzy pick up lines but when you try to walk up to them and just say hi or introduce yourself they look at you like you are crazy or speaking another language so tell me what the hell do you all want us to say to u so that we can maybe gat the time of day

I feel ya bra. Its so hard to find a good girl especially in Oklahoma. Its like you gotta go out of state to find a girl and then like you said you gotta get past her ego first. Like they think they are better than everybody else. What up with that?

Are you guys serious??? So you have to go outta state to find a chick??? Umm, I am right here in Oklahoma. Answer me this, why do guys always look for the anorexic chicks? You answer my question and I will help you out with yours.

I hate anorexic chicks they are disgusting. I don't look for them.

Also i have to agree it is hard to find good women in oklahoma...but I am sure there are a few...somewhere.

Uhm...excuse me...that's two of us already who have posted. Maybe you guys are looking in the wrong towns?

Tulsa's big I am sure there is someone here.

Maybe that is your probem! Maybe u really just don't want a girl from Oklahoma. If you live in Tulsa, there are thousands of women in Tulsa. You must be looking in all the wrong places.

I don't like anorexic chicks. I like a fit girl that has thick thighs. I don't care where she is from just don't like attitude. I'm all about respect and if you come off disrespectful from the get-go, then it just ain't gonna work. I can tell you from the beginning by the way you walk into a room or your voice. Arrogance is not a major turn on either.

Well put, Datboi!

Thank you Tee-Tee

all i am tryin to say is that girls these days are so stuck up that even if you can get them to put there guard down then the fun starts with tryin to make her friends like you cause every guy knows what i am talking about if her friends dont like you then you are ****ed with a capital F and it is not that iam looking in the wrong place or that i am looking for the wrong kind of woman it is the fact that if you dont have a nice car and at least a 100,000 in the bank a woman wont talk to you and you all know it is true even thought you all say you just want a nice guy that wont cheat well i am that guy and i am still alone so tell that

omg thats crazy...im an okie born and breed...
and i know for sure us okie gals have got to be more approachable than others we are sweet funny likable people and i know as for me when a guy comes up to say hi and talk i give him a big smile and let er rip...
maybe you guys are just trying to talk to girls to soon...
watch em a bit if you can even listen in to thier conversaions, do it... you can learn alot from body language...
if they have ***** written all over their faces or they act like *****es to others....
chances are they are,....and they will not give you a chance....

Really...I also believe that most men today, are all about looks. Especially, a man from OK.

Any Okies out there as bored as i am right now??

yep this okie girl had to go all the way to nevada to get a great man that treats her right...

Funny, I met a lot of great men and women on my trips to Oklahoma.

No complaints here.

I do take my rude comment back. There are a lot of men in OK that are good, just where do we find them????

Im right across the mountain from ya darlin'

hell where do you find a good woman in oklahoma i just moved from there being there most of my life. not much better here in tejas either