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Too bad the judge here said child molestation is not a violent crime and let go a child molesting teacher after saying one year in potective custody and then we never saw him sentenced even after he pled guilty plea bargained.
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On the issue of child molestation, in my parenting class I was taught to teach my child to use the words penis and vagina to speak about their body parts.
It was considered important for the child to know the proper words so that if they were questioned, there was no doubt about what body parts they were referring to. It was taught to have a frank discussion about their penis or vagina and to explain to them that these parts of their body belonged to them. That they were part of the reproductive system in humans. And that no one, including myself, had the right to touch it without their permission. I was taught to teach my child that if anyone did touch them, they had the right to complain to me or any other adult. This minimizes the chance of shame is that so often used by a molester to keep the child from speaking out. |
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Edited by
dreamerana
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Thu 03/26/15 09:11 PM
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open communication with children.
building trust to be approachable to have difficult conversations. teaching them that there is touching that is not ok, even if it's a friend or favorite relative. teach children not to be a victim. we are all taught respect for our elders. teach kids there are times it's ok to say no to someone older |
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The best way (probably) is to take appropriate measures in order to 'deprive' the molester of all his/her assets that had been hitherto, his/her 'pride'
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The OP's question implies that he's asking about adult women being raped. Because that threat does exist, I stand by my previous statement that a Ruger in the purse is the best defense. If we're talking about child molestation, dogs are put to death if they bite a child. Why should we not do the same to a molester?
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Edited by
JulieNRA
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Sat 05/09/15 09:16 PM
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Carrying in the purse is actually a bad idea. Purses can be stolen and then some criminal has a loaded weapon. I will ONLY carry on my body. Some thief can steal my purse and ID, but that douche is NOT getting my gun. Ever.
Actually, they wouldn't get my DL because it would also be on my person along with my permit just in case some punk tries to steal my purse. MN law - to legally carry have to have DL and permit on you at all times. As a habit, when I carry, I remove the cards from my purse so that in the event I, say, leave my purse with friends in a restaurant booth, I manage to avoid committing a felony just so I can go to the bathroom, lol. |
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A 210 grain hollowpoint to the forehead,
will generally cure a predator of all that ails them. 
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Carrying in the purse is actually a bad idea. Purses can be stolen and then some criminal has a loaded weapon. I will ONLY carry on my body. Some thief can steal my purse and ID, but that douche is NOT getting my gun. Ever. Actually, they wouldn't get my DL because it would also be on my person along with my permit just in case some punk tries to steal my purse. MN law - to legally carry have to have DL and permit on you at all times. As a habit, when I carry, I remove the cards from my purse so that in the event I, say, leave my purse with friends in a restaurant booth, I manage to avoid committing a felony just so I can go to the bathroom, lol.  Very smart!
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Am I the only one who thinks the word "handle" in the topic headline is a little inappropriate?
If not...carry on... 
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Edited by
Sileia
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Wed 05/13/15 04:30 PM
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My grandmother told me I could be wrong in this area or right. I was told by grandmother if a boy touch you some place they should not in that area to a kick them usually below the belt. I had incident at my church. I was there and then this thing below the church program. And well you might think it was minster and wrong it was one member church and pool sticks down there well this member touch me and game pool down there as well. I was tempt to hit him over the head with the pool stick but I did not. I just took off you could say I wait for my mom outside the church but they home to do few things that is with my sister. After that incident I did not return to that church again.
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Put him in a NZ prison, spread the word hehehe within 24 hours problem solved.
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Edited by
2OLD2MESSAROUND
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Thu 05/14/15 06:15 AM
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istay asked >>>
Molestation of women is a serious issue in all communities. In extreme cases It leaves physical and psychological scars. How to handle or avoid molesters. Can we share tricks/ methods/ precautions.... serious matter pl. a.) are you writing a thesis b.) do you have access to a computer or a library to do some research c.) look up 'Date Rape' Most Victims Know Their Attacker
About 85 to 90 percent of sexual assaults reported by college women are perpetrated by someone known to the victim; about half occur on a date. The most common locations are the man'��s or woman'��s home in the context of a party or a date. The perpetrators may range from classmates to neighbors. Half of all student victims do not define the incident as 'rape.' This is especially true when no weapon was used, there is no obvious physical injury, and alcohol was involved -�� factors commonly associated with campus acquaintance rape. This is one reason rape and other sexual assaults on campus are not well reported. Fewer than 5 percent of completed and attempted rapes of college students are reported to campus administrators or law enforcement, according to one study. Failure to recognize and report the crime to law enforcement officials may contribute to underestimating the extent of the problem and may affect whether victims seek medical care. http://www.nij.gov/topics/crime/rape-sexual-violence/campus/Pages/know-attacker.aspx And then there are these shocking stats >>> The Rapist isn't a Masked Stranger - Rapist Victim Acquaintance Approximately 4/5 of rapes were committed by someone known to the victim.1 82% of sexual assaults were perpetrated by a non-stranger.1 47% of rapists are a friend or acquaintance.1 25% are an intimate.1 5% are a relative.1 The Perpetrator's not Hiding in the Bushes Approximately 50% of all rape/sexual assault incidents were reported by victims to have occurred within 1 mile of their home or at their home.2 7% take place in a school. 13% take place at the home of a friend, neighbor, or relative. 18% take place in a public area, such as a commercial venue, parking lot, or park. 43% of rapes occur between 6:00pm and midnight.2 24% occur between midnight and 6:00am. The other 33% take place between 6:00am and 6:00pm. The Criminal The average age of a rapist is 31 years old.2 52% are white.2 22% of imprisoned rapists report that they are married.2 Juveniles accounted for 16% of forcible rape arrestees in 1995 and 17% of those arrested for other sex offenses.2 In 1 in 3 sexual assaults, the perpetrator was intoxicated - 30% with alcohol, 4% with drugs.3 In 2001, 11% of rapes involved the use of a weapon -�� 3% used a gun, 6% used a knife, and 2 % used another form of weapon.2 84% of victims reported the use of physical force only.2 Rapists are more likely to be a serial criminal than a serial rapist. 46% of rapists who were released from prison were re-arrested within 3 years of their release for another crime.4 18.6% for a violent offense. 14.8% for a property offense. 11.2% for a drug offense. 20.5% for a public-order offense. https://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-offenders **if you are female - BE AWARE** if you are a child ABSOLUTELY trust no one** THERE IS NO KNOWN CURE FOR CHILD MOLESTERS: chemical/medical/surgical intervention has never been proved to be 100% effective! |
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There's a method called Safeguarding. You have to tell at least one person that you're in danger of it happening. Even if it's just the police that you tell. You must remove yourself from the place where the molester is most likely to be. Even if they're a sweet person. Nothing will stop them. Move house if it means getting away from him or her. They're very sneaky people.
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Carrying in the purse is actually a bad idea. Purses can be stolen and then some criminal has a loaded weapon. I will ONLY carry on my body. Some thief can steal my purse and ID, but that douche is NOT getting my gun. Ever. Actually, they wouldn't get my DL because it would also be on my person along with my permit just in case some punk tries to steal my purse. MN law - to legally carry have to have DL and permit on you at all times. As a habit, when I carry, I remove the cards from my purse so that in the event I, say, leave my purse with friends in a restaurant booth, I manage to avoid committing a felony just so I can go to the bathroom, lol. The right idea, be proactive, think defensive, be prepared during moments of vulnerability, get some training. When it is time to act, shoot to kill. |
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Molestation of women is a serious issue in all communities. In extreme cases It leaves physical and psychological scars. How to handle or avoid molesters. Can we share tricks/ methods/ precautions.... serious matter pl. Hello my friend, I see this thread is about 70 days old. Sorry,I did not see if sooner. 1- ALL cases of abuse: emotional, physical, & sexual- to man,woman or child leaves scars (no matter if we can see them or not) 2- Goggle definitions of the words in an English dictionary & then a Legal dictionary.( Example- Rape is ANY kind of penetration.) 3- Most people do NOT know the difference between Molestation & Rape & Sexual Assault & Aggravated Sex Assault, Incest.. and miss use the terms * especially when the victims are children* And tend to minimize it, to make it easier for THEM to hear & know about... which casts the victim aside (not taken seriously & forgotten), & therefore makes excuses & perhaps forgives the guilty perpetrator(s). We had similar discussions before about human rights, women's rights & children not being viewed as objects & processions. And USA & India's changing laws & mindsets. Feel free to message me, BEFORE you become President of India. * You have my vote * 
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Molestation of women is a serious issue in all communities. In extreme cases It leaves physical and psychological scars. How to handle or avoid molesters. Can we share tricks/ methods/ precautions.... serious matter pl. https://blog.unbound.org/2014/04 grass-roots-approach-can-change-story-for-indias-girls |
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As a practical suggestion, the choice of professionals worldwide... A couple .22 Eley subsonics in the back of the pumpkin at close range.
They don't exit the skull and just kind of tumble around in there like a runaway sawblade. Much much cheaper than lawyers, courts, appeals, etc etc. Of course all this is ONLY if the party is without a shred of doubt guilty, and of course this is merely hypothetical.... (softly whistles and walks to the door) |
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Edited by
Conrad_73
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Fri 05/15/15 10:12 AM
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Machete and a backhoe.
plus 15 cu/yds of Readymixed Concrete! 
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Am I the only one who thinks the word "handle" in the topic headline is a little inappropriate? If not...carry on...
 certainly not with kid gloves (pun intended).
I think every adult woman knows how to avoid putting themselves in a situation or setting that makes them vulnerable to being "molested" (I am assuming you mean sexual assault versus being bothered). However, if tips, tricks, and precautions were sufficient there would be no instances of sexual assault to talk about. Predators hunt and exploit any moment of weakness. I believe your thread is well meaning but the worst thing a person can do is allow themselves to be lulled into a false sense of security. |
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