I feel it's the gentleman thing to pay the expenses for the date weather she ask you out or not . Even if she doesn't plan on ever asking you out again .she made her attempt to try anyway .

I have asked a guy do you want to have dinner and his reply was no thanks. I didn't give up. A week later asked him if he would like to have lunch.... Still he replied with I'm busy. A few weeks later when he text me I asked again. The point is I have been told no many times. But he said yes after like ten times of me asking. Just as women do. We all live busy life's. If a guy really never ask and you want to ask...... Go girl!!!!

I hope after the long wait you had a great date we all
get busy working at times or sometimes things comes up that can't be avoided . But wish you the best

Well to me, its for a lady to say her mind, that just dying in
pretence or nurturing feelings .........if you know what you
want and you are convince, there is no crime letting the cat
out of the bag........who knows if the guy in question is also
dying for you but can't tell you probably because you are
more pretty or wealthy!!!

Yes its ....there are no two ways about it.

But all in all, the bottom line is, MOST women will NEVER ask a guy out, its a gender thinghy....

If you are interested in him, see qualities that you seek in him, and aren't afraid to to go outside of traditional lines then make a move. Also you can flirt with him a little to see if he catches on and makes the next move or if your flirtation gives you enough positive reaction to tell you that you could make a move. Physically as a woman you are a most beautiful form. This form comes in many shapes and sizes color and grace. Don't be worried bout not feeling normal again because no matter the amount of hurt caused by rejection, there will always be someone that sees your true beauty and value. If you know your own value and are happy with yourself it will make it easier for someone else to see it to.