Seem like when I get close and all is well it turns around so fast its happened a few times but its to much for me. Tell me what you think please

It's kinda like when you tail gating a car & get too close & the car upfront slams on its brakes & you can guess what happens next....and what you learn from it

My names mike,romeo,ill be glad to help if i van. First figure out what youll tolerate. And what you wont.two,dont move too quickly bc you reallly dont know how quicklyshed like to commit or whatever,third,watch for cues ie she puts u off a lot etc.know roughly how her life is is it really wild predictable whatever.you can ask her to explain herselfcyou know this isnt high school you know.btw what do you mean it falls apart suddenlyif she cant or wont explain that then you dont know who she is in the first place.know eho you are and what it might be like if youceven moved in let alone serious with bells in the background. Anywaycive had that several times so its not rare anyway. Mike