Topic: Men and Women's Needs/Wants
Dodo_David's photo
Sun 03/01/15 11:14 AM

Men want pie. bigsmile


... and a sammich.

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Sun 03/01/15 11:50 AM


Men want pie. bigsmile


... and a sammich.


and a picnic sounds nice too. :thumbsup:

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Sun 03/01/15 12:16 PM
from the comments one can tell that some of "us" are not ready for a serious relationship. "we" seem like "we're" cracking some hard things out there. Hahahaha! but thanks God (*sorry if you're an Atheists) we have people like #no1phD. From your reasoning Sir I have gotten something. I will be very proud o myself to learn from women what they really need/want in men than sound like they are a thorn in men's buttocks! :)
"...woman that cares about
my needs as much as I care for
her needs..." these is so much meaning in this message Mr. ^5

Awatersign's photo
Mon 03/02/15 06:42 AM

Men want pie. bigsmile
Yes yes,PIE drool ,meat pie!!pitchfork bigsmile :angel:

Awatersign's photo
Mon 03/02/15 06:47 AM

what do men really want in women?
what do women really want in men?
*from your own perspective
Far as what men wants,can only speak for me,and that's LOVE and RESPECT,and for women,in my opinion,they want us to take charge while they be in charge the SAME DAMM TIME!!!frustrated noway slaphead

no1phD's photo
Mon 03/02/15 07:59 AM
Edited by no1phD on Mon 03/02/15 08:04 AM
..hmm.. I have learnt this much..
.. in the beginning stages of relationship.... you work very hard at letting your partner know... that you want to meet their needs... that is you really want to give their needs your full attention..... you rise up in the morning thinking only of their needs..mmm... lunchtime.. you're alone in the stockroom thinking only about their needs..mmm... you arrived home from work after a very hard hard day.. then you slave over a hot hot.. hot stove.. hoping that they will devour your ... dinner ,you made lovingly for them.... then you fill the kitchen sink full of hot soapy sudsy water.... so you can wash the dishes the dirty dirty dishes for them..... as they stand behind you pouring.... a hot , hot mmmcoffee for themself...
... and then you think quietly to yourself...hmm.. I've been thinking about them.... trying very hard to satisfy their needs all day..... and now they have just poured themselves a hot cup of coffee...wtf.. how about my needs.... where's my coffee.... thus begins the end of meeting each others needs..lol

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DavidCommaGeek's photo
Mon 03/02/15 09:35 AM
Here's one survey. Not sure how useful the replies are, but this is what I have observed:

http://mingle2.com/topic/424548

MariahsFantasy's photo
Mon 03/02/15 10:39 AM

The ideal woman have a baby in the morning,
and be out weeding the garden that same afternoon.
I hear that's how it used to be,
in the good old days.:tongue:


Until men folk realized we had the power all along.
More intelligent, lives longer, accountable, nurturing.
Women +1

sahotarajnish's photo
Mon 03/02/15 10:40 AM
Hi

usman7861's photo
Mon 03/02/15 11:55 AM
Only sex

whitesnoop88's photo
Mon 03/02/15 10:21 PM
True

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Mon 03/02/15 10:49 PM
Yes! And to be loved for who you are.

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Mon 03/02/15 10:55 PM

what do men really want in women?
what do women really want in men?
*from your own perspective



Women value - strength of character - to say what you mean and to stand by what you say. They want someone they can rely on. Women see things more in black and white - right or wrong.

Men want a good time without any hassles. They want to do their own thing and still have the love and attention of the woman in their life. He usually has a lot of 'grey' areas. Will plead ignorance a lot - they didn't know this or that was what you wanted.

Women want validation that their time and energy is being spent on a person worthy of such efforts. This is why men say that women nag them.

Men see these expectations as a stranglehold on their masculinity -
they just don't remember anything of any conversation ever. So when challenged about what they said they would do and didn't, they want the woman to just sh**up!

My answers are from my own (long term) experiences as the OP asked *from your own perspective.

flowerforyou happy :smile:

Stay friendly folksbiggrin


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Mon 03/02/15 10:56 PM

Women want to be controlled. It's that simple. But they've shot themselves in the foot with this woman question nonsense. Because men aren't allowed to beat them up anymore. So when they get sassy or whatever it goes unpunished. And that's when their primordial instincts resurface and they start longing for a "real man" again.


No. Women are to be treated with respect. It's that simple. Men are not allowed to beat women up because everyone knows men are designed to protect women. Men who beat up women are just cowards not real men.

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Mon 03/02/15 11:13 PM


Women want to be controlled. It's that simple. But they've shot themselves in the foot with this woman question nonsense. Because men aren't allowed to beat them up anymore. So when they get sassy or whatever it goes unpunished. And that's when their primordial instincts resurface and they start longing for a "real man" again.


No. Women are to be treated with respect. It's that simple. Men are not allowed to beat women up because everyone knows men are designed to protect women. Men who beat up women are just cowards not real men.
That's the first thing you've said about guys that I agree with! Personally, put those cowards in a Boxing ring with me and see how they like it when they come up against someone who DOES hit back? No time for women beaters! Absolute scum!!!

m3k4y's photo
Mon 03/02/15 11:19 PM

Men want pie. bigsmile
yes . for midnight snackbigsmile

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Mon 03/02/15 11:29 PM
Girls just wanna have fun...bigsmile pitchfork laugh


Men want tacos...drool

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Mon 03/02/15 11:30 PM


Women want to be controlled. It's that simple. But they've shot themselves in the foot with this woman question nonsense. Because men aren't allowed to beat them up anymore. So when they get sassy or whatever it goes unpunished. And that's when their primordial instincts resurface and they start longing for a "real man" again.


No. Women are to be treated with respect. It's that simple. Men are not allowed to beat women up because everyone knows men are designed to protect women. Men who beat up women are just cowards not real men.


Yay Estelle!!! flowers drinker waving

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Mon 03/02/15 11:34 PM

Girls just wanna have fun...bigsmile pitchfork laugh


Men want tacos...drool
Maybe American men do? I'd rather have a full Scottish breakfast? 3 slices of bacon, 3 square sliced sausage, 2 fried eggs, black pudding, fried bread, beans, mushrooms, hash browns and a fried potato scone! Sets you up for a hard days work!

krishnashri's photo
Tue 03/03/15 12:40 AM
Just both need some happiness and some feelings from other people