if someone was supposed to call u back and didnt and then about 6, 7 hrs later..u ve called them a few times and keep getting their voice mail and noone seems to of heard from them....im worried sick. and its driving me crazy.....!!!!!!!!

I would pray and think positive. During stressful situations irrational and negative thoughts just snowball into a complete breakdown, that only makes the situation worse.
I hope everything is ok

That is nerve-wracking. You just have to hope for the best, I think. Sending positive thoughts your way. Good luck.

Nothing annoys a guy more than worry-wort phone calling. Assume his lack of returning your call is a sign of either being legitimately busy, or plainly rude.

If he's being rude, cut your losses now, he'll only drive you nuts.

If he's really busy, then he wouldnt be able to speak with you in a meaningful way - so try to occupy your thoughts with something else until he gets back to you. Calling every so-often to "ping" for a response will really annoy him - especially if he's really busy.

I KNOW ITS FRUSTRATING BUT BE PATIENT THINGS USUALLY TURN OUT ALRIGHT THEY PROBABLY JUST GOT TIED UP WITH SOMETHING ELSE

hmm wel lets see...this is the first time this has ever happened..and im not supposed to be worried huh..well lets see..it is now 1:15 am and still nowhere to be found....10 hrs. and none of his friends or even his brother has heard from him. so i think now i have a reason to worry. but thanx anyways

Obviously he wasn't to concerned about how you would feel. I think he probably went out with his friends and is busy doing something else. I sure wouldn't be calling all of his friends or brother checking up on him....when he wanted to talk to me, he knows my number!!!
Good luck

I'm a blunt kind of guy, so here goes...

How long have you known this guy?
Did you guys have sex for the first time tonight?

haha you are blunt spider!!!

okay. one i didnt call him a million times. i called an no answer. his brother called me asking me if he was with me. i said no. i call him again a few hrs later. no answer. His one friend calls me to ask if im with him or if i have his fone cause hes getting no answer. after a few more hrs i try to call again. same thing. his bro calls me back cause hes worried cause hes called everyone and noone has seen him. So i call one more time which was at about midnight. no answer. And his MOM...juss called me to make sure im not lieing and saying hes not with me. Okay...so i dont think im over reacing and i dont think im pestering him by calling.

Ive none him for a long time. not sure an exact ****in w/e.
No we did not have sex for the first time tonite..... weve never had sex.
okay so i talked to him at aprox. 2:30, 3:00 this afternoon....and he says...he has to go cause his moms *****in and that he'll call me back at 4 and i should keep by my fone cause he misses me and really wants to talk to me. and that he loves me and then we hung up.

And uhm another thing is that he has always answered the fone no matter what he was doing if it was me calling. even if he was busy.
He would never pass up talking to me. ever
we practically never get off the fone with eachother.
so yeah. i dun want noone to tell me not to worry.
k thanx! bye

If all he was suppose to do was call you back then

jjezzz, gurl get off him rock your going to make him sink!

& yes this is modern technology, So He will get your messages.

maybe take a look see in the "stocker" thread...

No Worries!!

okay....like i juss said. im not the only fuc*in one worried. and i think ive fu*kin known him long enough to know that obviously somethins goin on..ight

Heartofplatinum,

"and i think ive fu*kin known him long enough to know that obviously somethins goin on..ight "

But none of us know him and we are trying to answer your question. I'm not really sure what you wanted when you created this thread.

okay. juss nvm. its juss that i have smart as* ppl emailin me sayin things they have no rit sayin. but wateva. idec. goodbye

I was posting when you were.
So now that you posted more of the information
that would change most of our answers dontcha think???

You came in here asking for answers.
Don't get all pissy when we answered you with the information we had to go on.

SSSSSSSSOOOOOOOO, now that you posted that, What the hell is the point of this thread????

You asked if you should be worried???

You need to grow up & keep your drama out of the forums.

okay well i dont consider it drama. and uhm yeah. its a public forum so anyone can post w/e they want...not only me but everyone else. so yeah i juss thought if ppl are gunna be writin me sayin rude shyt bout it then ima put it out there. and like really i wouldnt have to be replying with ignorant shyt if ppl wouldnt be posting it. if sumone got somethin negative to say and they post it then u best believe ima come write back. cause i have a foul mouth and aint afraid to speak my mind. so if yall dun wanna hear it...then dun be givin me a reason. later!