How can I tell just by having a chat with a guy if he's interested, not surex

When he says,



''Shelly youre hot....stop searching and lets get the hell outta here, you & me right now

If he says to you " I can feel a connection between us?" You can say 9 times out of 10, " That you can also see that connection moving about in his trousers!" You can tell, just like i could with lassies before in the past, but i'm off the market these days, as i'm married now! Best of luck on here, ok?

He lives close which is perfect,but we have only chatted a few times,I do all the talking,he says he wants to get yo know be more, but never really says much,could he just be shy

U no by is attitude and respect he gives towards u.manner of approach sense of sincerity in is words

I would be getting him to open a whole lot more before any face to face....and when that time comes take a friend or two...

Talk to him Shelly and bring him out of his shell, enough for him to open up and be a bit more confident around lassies like yourself. This could be the one, you never know? Take that chance, ok?

Ooops double post!

I dont know about all of you but when you have someone interested in you cant you feel it.. like just how they look at you or if they seem excited to talk or even if they keep hinting at a compliment about you. Like small things. they smile if they look you in the eye and not a ohh ok please stop talking smile but an actual smile. Or if when they talk to you they try assimilating the way you react to things. Thats been proven because when someone likes somone you in a way change small aspects of youre personality to match theirs. Like write lol after a sentence because they do that or w/e lol ppl wont even realize theyre doing it until you look for it.

I think a guy is always interested :)

If he won't talk about himself I would be wary of meeting him at all. It's hard to be shy in an email or text.

Thank you all for you advice xx