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Topic: Stop looking and LIVE.....
bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Wed 01/28/15 12:22 PM
I believe that people who are actively looking are so determined to find someone, that they become blind to who people really are. It's dangerous. Mentally and financially... It's why most "hook-ups" don't last. You see for REAL who you only thought you knew. I believe you need to spend time talking with and making memories with someone, to truly know them...and to truly love them. And the best way to attract a great person? Be a great person yourself. The right one will come along. I know this to be true.... Damn you sure are wise beyond your years I just have that thing called "common sense"... Yeah well not to many people have that attribute...lol It's a great thing to have. Makes life easier and happier when you use it.

Foursure Joined Fri 01/09/15 Posts: 3231	Wed 01/28/15 12:27 PM
You can lose a lot of money chasing women....but you can never lose women while chasing money how wrong you are .. many many first marriages end with the woman leaving because she cannot compete with his desire for making more and more money. How many times do you hear the older guy with his second or third family saying he spent too much time searching for more and more money before and he won't do that this time. too bad for the first (trial) wife and children

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Wed 01/28/15 12:42 PM
I believe that people who are actively looking are so determined to find someone, that they become blind to who people really are. It's dangerous. Mentally and financially... It's why most "hook-ups" don't last. You see for REAL who you only thought you knew. I believe you need to spend time talking with and making memories with someone, to truly know them...and to truly love them. And the best way to attract a great person? Be a great person yourself. The right one will come along. I know this to be true.... Damn you sure are wise beyond your years I just have that thing called "common sense"... Yeah well not to many people have that attribute...lol It's a great thing to have. Makes life easier and happier when you use it.

Kipp4458 Joined Tue 01/13/15 Posts: 1677	Wed 01/28/15 01:15 PM
I believe that people who are actively looking are so determined to find someone, that they become blind to who people really are. It's dangerous. Mentally and financially... It's why most "hook-ups" don't last. You see for REAL who you only thought you knew. I believe you need to spend time talking with and making memories with someone, to truly know them...and to truly love them. And the best way to attract a great person? Be a great person yourself. The right one will come along. I know this to be true.... Damn you sure are wise beyond your years I just have that thing called "common sense"... Yeah well not to many people have that attribute...lol It's a great thing to have. Makes life easier and happier when you use it. Don't want to sound to proud but my freakin garden is overflowing

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Wed 01/28/15 01:20 PM
I believe that people who are actively looking are so determined to find someone, that they become blind to who people really are. It's dangerous. Mentally and financially... It's why most "hook-ups" don't last. You see for REAL who you only thought you knew. I believe you need to spend time talking with and making memories with someone, to truly know them...and to truly love them. And the best way to attract a great person? Be a great person yourself. The right one will come along. I know this to be true.... Damn you sure are wise beyond your years I just have that thing called "common sense"... Yeah well not to many people have that attribute...lol It's a great thing to have. Makes life easier and happier when you use it. Don't want to sound to proud but my freakin garden is overflowing You must be a Republican...

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Wed 01/28/15 01:59 PM
This is exactly how I feel about dating/online dating. Thoughts? Awwwww,she's smart funny AND crazy lol,good girl,you shouldn't be on the market for long bash!!

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Wed 01/28/15 02:01 PM
This is exactly how I feel about dating/online dating. Thoughts? Awwwww,she's smart funny AND crazy lol,good girl,you shouldn't be on the market for long bash!! Uh....Basha is not "on the market". She doesn't roll that way... But...thanks for the compliment, I think?

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Wed 01/28/15 02:02 PM
She found me....

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Wed 01/28/15 02:05 PM
This is exactly how I feel about dating/online dating. Thoughts? Awwwww,she's smart funny AND crazy lol,good girl,you shouldn't be on the market for long bash!! Uh....Basha is not "on the market". She doesn't roll that way... But...thanks for the compliment, I think? Yes,it's a compliment ,you seem to have a nice colorful personality,you're going to make some guy happy lol,I would bet on it! !

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Wed 01/28/15 02:17 PM
This is exactly how I feel about dating/online dating. Thoughts? Awwwww,she's smart funny AND crazy lol,good girl,you shouldn't be on the market for long bash!! Uh....Basha is not "on the market". She doesn't roll that way... But...thanks for the compliment, I think? Yes,it's a compliment ,you seem to have a nice colorful personality,you're going to make some guy happy lol,I would bet on it! ! Wow. Thanks for saying that. You just made my day....HUGS