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Topic: Confused
FinchJo's photo
Tue 01/27/15 08:50 PM
What you will do If your girlfriend/boyfriend will ask this to you " Do you still love me?" but you can't answer directly. o_O

no photo
Tue 01/27/15 08:52 PM
Answer directly,honestly,precisely,concisely!!!! No other way

kc0003's photo
Tue 01/27/15 08:54 PM
answer directly.

m3k4y's photo
Tue 01/27/15 08:55 PM
Lol..it's either a yes or no..

FinchJo's photo
Tue 01/27/15 08:55 PM

answer directly.


read the last part :D

FinchJo's photo
Tue 01/27/15 08:56 PM

Lol..it's either a yes or no..


at first I can answer directly a YES but now, Its confusing o_O

m3k4y's photo
Tue 01/27/15 08:58 PM


Lol..it's either a yes or no..


at first I can answer directly a YES but now, Its confusing o_O
then answer maybe..lol

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Tue 01/27/15 09:00 PM

What you will do If your girlfriend/boyfriend will ask this to you " Do you still love me?" but you can't answer directly. o_O


If its a bf/gf,as in,relationship,why then,can't you answer directly??? Am assuming the one doing the asking is not being loved by the one being asked????

Answer: Yes.
. No.

davidben1's photo
Tue 01/27/15 09:16 PM
answer them the most one honestly feel.

those who do not, will lose.

Astrid's photo
Tue 01/27/15 09:28 PM
Either way, you still need to answer. Suffer the confusion or be free.

DavidCommaGeek's photo
Tue 01/27/15 09:39 PM
In this case, not being able to answer directly IS a direct answer. If you still love someone (still, as in you know you've been loving them for a while) then it should be obvious to you.

davidben1's photo
Tue 01/27/15 09:40 PM
how can any expect anything to go good for them self, until they first care about how good it goes for others.

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Tue 01/27/15 09:44 PM
Love is an abstract and lazy term. Tell this person what you actually feel.

germanchoclate1981's photo
Tue 01/27/15 09:50 PM

Either way, you still need to answer. Suffer the confusion or be free.

This is one of those grey areas where there isn't always a clear cut answer. That being said, NOT answering = answering NO. Maybe the intent of the question is to confuse. Answering 'I don't know' is deadly, worse than saying no. The true answer iswwithin the question. Even in non-tonal languages tone timing inflection means everything. If it's just out of the blue indirect it could still spell disaster. If it's face to face serious then she thinks you don't love her anymore and expects you to prove that you do. If it's in person but kind of just thrown in like a 2-2 knuckle ball, she's doing something she shouldn't and trying to see if you know it or not. Asking any questions of your own will get you nowhere but deeper in trouble than if you looked her dead in the eye and said no. Answer carefully.

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Tue 01/27/15 09:54 PM

What you will do If your girlfriend/boyfriend will ask this to you " Do you still love me?" but you can't answer directly. o_O




Honesty is always best which ever way you answer it

davidben1's photo
Tue 01/27/15 09:54 PM
the only gray in life is to those who seek first and most good for them self most.

and these get the reward of feeling most in life, gray.

2469nascar's photo
Tue 01/27/15 11:26 PM
I always lie to her and tell her ya baby i love you.JK JK JK.Just tell the truth. YES OR NO....

Maxisu's photo
Wed 01/28/15 01:28 AM

Love is an abstract and lazy term. Tell this person what you actually feel.


Yep and better to reply asap...even a " Give me time...I have to seriously think about it....!"

you might even need some time off to figure it out....and then seriously share what you feel in general.

it's not only a question of respect for your partner but also a question of self respect.

Ladywind7's photo
Wed 01/28/15 01:47 AM
I think asking 'Are you in love with me' Is a better question.
When asked that question by your SO you can genuinly feel love for the person but not be in love at all anymore.
When they ask you 'Do you love me', its easy to reply 'yes'. whilst you are figuring out how to end the relationship.

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Wed 01/28/15 01:41 PM

What you will do If your girlfriend/boyfriend will ask this to you " Do you still love me?" but you can't answer directly. o_O
Find a nice way to tell her no,cause like someone said here,the answer should be easy,especially if you love them,people have feelings,some people heart is easier to break than some,so be careful not to break her heart,maybe tell her you're just not feeling "that connection"maybe?,and that it's better to not force something that's not there,something like that maybe,you know?!

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