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come'on lets be honest, which attracts most? looks but i'm a perv 
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If Personality = Intellect, Character,Wit, Humor, Compassion, Integrity, Empathy, Wisdom, Self-Awareness,Passion, & Honesty?- LMAO! My vote is 100% for "The Personality"!!!
Don't get me, wrong, someone's appearance is important[personal grooming, ect] but no matter, "How Gorgeous" someone is; that's not nearly enough to hold my interest over time nor is it- enough to create & grow the kind of relationship that I would hope to build with another someday;} 
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If Personality = Intellect, Character,Wit, Humor, Compassion, Integrity, Empathy, Wisdom, Self-Awareness,Passion, & Honesty?- LMAO! My vote is 100% for "The Personality"!!! Don't get me, wrong, someone's appearance is important[personal grooming, ect] but no matter, "How Gorgeous" someone is; that's not nearly enough to hold my interest over time nor is it- enough to create & grow the kind of relationship that I would hope to build with another someday;}
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I really do not go for "pretty" guys. If they are really good looking i am wary because most men who I've met that are gd looking ....know it and that is offputting. Looks catch the eye but the soul is caught by other less shallow attributes
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come'on lets be honest, which attracts most? Honestly?...I like the cute boys... 
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personally..I try to get a bit of both..
... that's what makes finding.. . a girlfriend such a challenge.. . it would be easy if I decide to go. just by looks or personality..lol |
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This entire thread, is why I'm still single.
I think I judge the super-good looking men as vacant, unintelligent jocks. They don't interest me at all. My last boyfriend, I fell in love with over a period of about a year- he was NOT attractive to me when we met, but the more I learned about him, I grew to appreciate him and care for him. All of his so-called flaws (former Rugby player-- his face was literally broken), became endearing stories about his life. He BECAME attractive to me. But only after falling in love with his character. Too bad his conflict management skills were that of a teenage girl. I get rather annoyed when a man displays (in any way) that my value to him is physical attraction. Eff that. That's purely subjective and unworthy of praise. I want someone who finds our time together stimulating (and I them), and, that comes over a long period of time. Not a single date. I think its terribly creepy for men to 'come onto' me. "Hey Beautiful..." "Hey Baby..." You're just a horny stranger. I want none of it. |
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personality and shared interests are my thing, Looks come in third, after that, but they are definitely a consideration, along with grooming (which is part of looks).
and looks can vary. a man does not have to have classic george clooney type good looks to be sparky
but of course, it's OK if he does 
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This entire thread, is why I'm still single. I think I judge the super-good looking men as vacant, unintelligent jocks. They don't interest me at all. My last boyfriend, I fell in love with over a period of about a year- he was NOT attractive to me when we met, but the more I learned about him, I grew to appreciate him and care for him. All of his so-called flaws (former Rugby player-- his face was literally broken), became endearing stories about his life. He BECAME attractive to me. But only after falling in love with his character. Too bad his conflict management skills were that of a teenage girl. I get rather annoyed when a man displays (in any way) that my value to him is physical attraction. Eff that. That's purely subjective and unworthy of praise. I want someone who finds our time together stimulating (and I them), and, that comes over a long period of time. Not a single date. I think its terribly creepy for men to 'come onto' me. "Hey Beautiful..." "Hey Baby..." You're just a horny stranger. I want none of it.
maybe they'll all fall off the scaffolding...lol
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both , and knows what she wants
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Edited by
Valeris
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Tue 01/27/15 09:03 AM
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There is little to no real nutrition value to be found in a constant & steady diet of "Eye-Candy"...*Grins*
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It depends on each person. Cause what makes one person sexy or appealing isn't going to be what makes another the same.
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This entire thread, is why I'm still single. I think I judge the super-good looking men as vacant, unintelligent jocks. They don't interest me at all. My last boyfriend, I fell in love with over a period of about a year- he was NOT attractive to me when we met, but the more I learned about him, I grew to appreciate him and care for him. All of his so-called flaws (former Rugby player-- his face was literally broken), became endearing stories about his life. He BECAME attractive to me. But only after falling in love with his character. Too bad his conflict management skills were that of a teenage girl. I get rather annoyed when a man displays (in any way) that my value to him is physical attraction. Eff that. That's purely subjective and unworthy of praise. I want someone who finds our time together stimulating (and I them), and, that comes over a long period of time. Not a single date. I think its terribly creepy for men to 'come onto' me. "Hey Beautiful..." "Hey Baby..." You're just a horny stranger. I want none of it. I swear not all really good looking guys are jerks, maybe that is the problem, ppl instantly think good looking guys are tools so who would approach a tool, looks are deceiving from whats really inside. we shouldn't stop at "oh your good looking" that should only be the start! "who let the dogs out" |
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B honest young men the barbie doll but now as an older guy personality and honesty is such a turn on and a future
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You are right sweetie
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It's good to do what you enjoy most sweetie
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