Okay, I'm back with another topic for your Brains....
Now lets say you live in a big city like New York, Philadelphia, los Angeles, Chicago, or even Miami, & you single rather you seeking dating, just friends, or relationship ,sexual encounters hell even marriage. Do people today want love anymore or is it about a casual sex. Don't get me wrong I like great sex, I like to date for the hopes to elevate to something more special but the politics of dating today seems far more " Play by Ear" or" Lets Have sex then we can talk about us being together". So what I want to know is "Is Love still factor today or casual sex is the new courting,( example we just have fun then we see if we compatible or if its not broken don't fix it mentality?". Give me your thoughts on this one ( oh Shot outs to all who living this topic....)

Humm I prefer love with great sex........

wow, I agree I like good sex with our relationships....lol. What it be nice if you can date someone and have the great sex, a relationship and role play like we just met and your loved one would meet a sleezy bar and you take them home for a sexual encounter & afterwards you became together during the role play....lol

Personally I think and hope it is about mutual respect. Both parties working towards developing the best intimacy for the relationship

I think technology is the new "liquid courage" where people do and say things they wouldn't before. After exchanging a few emails people think it's okay to jump in the sack. And, with less social interactions, this will only get worse.

Only with love involved, can sex be PASSIONATE...

I LOVE making PASSIONATE LOVE!

Nothing better.....

I think the problem today is that people overthink things. Example: Your OP was a little lengthy for me to read. lol

personally I agree with you, its always should be about love & respect for your union. so do think love is here to stay in today's world. I know before I got with my girlfriend, dating was tuff. its almost seemed like every girl I wanted to meet online was just on some other things...so I been there...now I have the love balance & its even yoked ...

I totally agree!

I wouldn't mind love

I can take or leave sex,,,been left for a while now in fact,,,

okay, love is where it at.....I want both....love & sex it goes together like a Plate of greens & Fried Chicken....lol

Hmm.. can I just say I" love sex"..
. isn't that a form of love!..

can be ....lol
I like risky sex at a place where is a chance to get caught....then again I like private too.....
then again I want to love my girl with great sex.....is that being greedy...lol

I suspect that some people are obsessed with sex because they use it as a drug.

I love to make love...with my love..lol..sounds sexier. ..

many people choose sex because they think it's easier.
me, I prefer a lasting love

When I was younger if it was just sex it did not matter much to me but at this point in my life I am looking for that true love romance. Sex is so much better when its with someone you love.

This.