Ok i have been on here for a few days now and i have only talked to 1 female. Am i ugly or something or am i doing something wrong. Lord the females in Spain were easier to talk to over a glass of wine. I see american females are kinda harder to talk to. Am I right?

no, you are not right.

y u say that?

I kind of have to agree with him on this. I don't get many replies either.

thank you Tin.

Dude, you have been here for less than a day, and you expect instant results.

It takes time people... patience is a virtue. .

hold on now. you asked if you were right, you didn't ask for an explanation...i don't know your approach, i don't even know if you are talking about on here or women in general.

we need more info.

today makes my 3rd day. Over in Spain all i had to do was go out my friends to a wine bar and i had females falling all over me. As i said american women are not like back when i was 18/19.

It could be your approach but assuming you're respectful, it may just be the type of women you try to talk to.

This is not a wine bar...... and it works differently here, cos' all we see here is your profile pic! Not something that will make the younger ladies tripping and falling for you.

Work on your profile....more pics! And a little bit more on what you like to do.

Footnote:
And your remark on American women isn't going to get you in the 'favorite' list there.

Oh...forgot to say 'welcome to Mingles', best of luck in your search, and join in the forums to get yourself noticed. Be good...

"Dont Know What To Do."

Try this:

Are you Redmist, from this site in the flesh?

I guess i am just thinking about my age and over thinking it. I always thought ill be married with kids by this age living the american dream. But i am very easy to talk to. My grandma raised me to respect females. She always told me if i ever disrespected a female she would kill my ***.... I am scared of grandma bad. lol

No disrespect to any nationality of women but from experience being overseas in Europe and elsewhere I must concur. Think about it LADIES, (I love ladies btw)
1. Hi, I'm _______ im from AMERICA (overseas)
2. Hi, I'm ______ im from Italy France Scotland England whatever accent drives you ladies wild.
3. Hi I'm ________ im from -some inconspicuous small town that shall go unnamed as not to offend anyone-
Based on that alone, because rather online or in person our time to make our first impression is shrinking by the second, which one would you talk to?
Yes, it takes time.
Yes, looks also play a part.
But how many dating sites or apps are there now? How many ladies have smart phones tablets or laptops giving you instant access with possibly millions of things to capture your attention rather than me, tinman or cowboy?
And yes, we may be guilty of the same but PEOPLE do not interact court date meet or do very much of anything the way we did 10 or 15 years ago. Going back in time before the internet dating age this is probably the biggest change since the equal rights movement.
Things have changed.

If reads like Redmist,feels like Redmist,then it could be Redmist....but seriously,this DOES read like Redmist!!!!

Could be that your profile says very little about you and also a big turn off for a lot of people is someone that smokes. JMO

well, either way, whining about it on here is not gaining you any favors with "American women". when they were all over you then, i bet you weren't telling them this... be confident, be happy and make them laugh, you'll see different results... give it time, this isn't a get laid site, it's a dating site... most on women on here are not looking to get laid, and if your coming off as that, you won't have good results...

The simple answer is move to Spain