Topic: Fight in a strong long term relationship
Josuff's photo
Sun 01/11/15 11:55 PM
how to get rid off fighting in a relationship? usually misunderstanding causes the fight & if you argue noway , the argument with women is like reading the software licence in which in the end you have to sign offrant

what is the solution to get rid off this situation?:heart: :heart: :heart:

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Mon 01/12/15 12:35 AM
I tell you what, when you find it ill edit and publish it and we'll make millions.
Pretty much, in my experience, and I've been there more times than I care to admit, the relationship is already over. When you look back on past relationships you will remember thinking WTF did I do wrong but if you think back a little further you'll notice a point of separation. It won't be an argument most times but it will be noticeably different from that point forward from the rest of the relationship. The point of no return is the first big argument after that. I'm not saying that this is the case in every relationship but I think this will sound familiar to a lot of people. I know exactly what you mean about the EULA. Ever use logic a__hole? f logic or reason don't apply to an argument, the argument is invalid. Thought and argument based in logic SHOULD lead to a reasonable life and reasonable relationships, unfortunately this doesn't always work. Be prepared to stand alone and if it works out it's a positive. Stand your ground but keep your cool. Remember it's always better to walk away from an argument than to get a ride downtown in the back of a police car.

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Mon 01/12/15 01:14 AM
Break updrinker

Awatersign's photo
Mon 01/12/15 06:09 AM
Edited by Awatersign on Mon 01/12/15 06:11 AM
First ting I'll say is,sometimes you're just to incompatible,so then it's more challenging,and second,it's the fundamentals of the relationship,respecting each other,communication,you know,stuff like that,and as you put time and effort into it,and you see no progress or,things are getting worse,then its time to make a decision,good luck though!drinker

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Mon 01/12/15 06:17 AM

how to get rid off fighting in a relationship? usually misunderstanding causes the fight & if you argue noway , the argument with women is like reading the software licence in which in the end you have to sign offrant

what is the solution to get rid off this situation?:heart: :heart: :heart:



then read it...sorry if communication requires a little work. Be prepared for her concerns to be valid, and I say that not because women are always right lol. Of course that is only true sometimeswinking

I say that because your comment causes me to think that maybe you have not been listening very well....in the same way we skim over that license agreement before we sign itslaphead

Josuff's photo
Mon 01/12/15 09:57 PM
Edited by Josuff on Mon 01/12/15 09:58 PM


how to get rid off fighting in a relationship? usually misunderstanding causes the fight & if you argue noway , the argument with women is like reading the software licence in which in the end you have to sign offrant

what is the solution to get rid off this situation?:heart: :heart: :heart:



then read it...sorry if communication requires a little work. Be prepared for her concerns to be valid, and I say that not because women are always right lol. Of course that is only true sometimeswinking

I say that because your comment causes me to think that maybe you have not been listening very well....in the same way we skim over that license agreement before we sign itslaphead


Basically what you are saying is to sign off but read thorougly Lol !

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Mon 01/12/15 10:06 PM
Logically, it means to get rid of egos, on both sides. The best choice? Is to stay alive.

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Mon 01/12/15 11:24 PM


arguing can be helpful, OK... wait a minute.... IF you can really find out what the heck is the REAL issue. Most fights start with a little spark that sets all the stored stuff alight.
Try to call a halt to the yelling and just ask "what is this about, really?" you may just get an honest answer


Remember you can never 'un' ring a bell, be careful what you say.
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