If we aren't we are
I feel ya and can relate sweetest, then again maybe we are looking for that needle in this vast preverbal haystack and it's not so crazy after all, so we just have to settle for what the universe sends us, until then. (and of course kc'��s suggestion)and

why do the idiot's wish for different, but each moment each day wish for the same.

do they not sea different results come from wishing different.

guess not, for they are the definition of idiots.

for to obtain different results, one must have different thoughts, and to have different thoughts, one must have different wants.

I tend to just reflect on why I am single. Then push on doing what I am doing.

I don't sea why you have to call anyone an idiot.

When there is no one around you to fall in love with then fall in love with yourself. Care for yourself. (As was already said) send flowers to yourself. Make a luxurious candle light dinner for yourself. Treat yourself how you want to be treated by a partner. So when that person enters your life you will know. And won't be deceived by false intents.

Actually, I think that's the definition of insanity. Which is very distinct from idiocy.

And I've gotta give lionsbrew props for honesty and fortitude.

Hmm.. sounds like it's time for some fast food..lol.. is it about falling in love.?.. or is it more about not needing to fall in love...
.. being comfortable with yourself.
.. keeping yourself company..
discovering that you need to make yourself happy.... once you realize you no longer need someone else, to love you.. or need someone else to make you happy... that's right about the time, the universe..
put's somebody in front of you.. that needs you to love them!
. needs you to make them happy.!.

it is normal in life for those who think of many others in their mind as idiot's, to repress such feelings, for to strive to be a good person, and in fear of them self as a possible idiots, hate the word "idiot" it self...

but why live in fear of what one could be...

of a word?

only the dumb who live but to gain acceptance and adorement from others will live defending against any word as "idiot" as being bad.

but it would not have been made up by humans lest it had validity.

some deem wise all that was created, and some, the feeble of heart and emotion, only what sounds and feels good about one self.

the idiots.

we need a word for such actions and self motives.

which is why the word was created.

the bigger question be, why do some hate to hear "idiots"?

why is that deemed bad?

are and have not we all been idiots many times while alive over and over again?

but those who seek but to prove them self wise, will fear the word, and it's implications upon them self.

but only those who fear being an idiot become and are the idiot.

very well put

looks down at the ground sheepishly..
kicks a pebble with his toe..
and says.. oh shucks ma'am 'it was nothing'. just a simple thought from the simple man....
ok and for some of you..
I said simple man! not a simpleton..lmao

Could be better to fly instead ...

Obviously we don't sea eye to eye
www.merriam-webster.com Idiot : a very stupid or foolish person

for how can one fly above the reality of life before it can hear of all reality without fear or cowardice from words.

ummmm as babies, you are born to thrive on receiving love. You were born that way.

Have patience.

Well, for starters you hang out here.. cause,,,,,,,You've got to laugh a little, cry a little, until the clouds roll by a little. That's the story of, that's the glory of love.

tamitateo...

who is Albert Einstein...

he called self defeating "mentalities" idiocy as well...

i don't follow Einstein.

is he your chosen self appointed leader?

if you lived with him, you would nearly despise him.

smiles...

and you ain't supposed to need a leader in life, as you are NOT meant to be like Albert Einstein.

smiles...

the only thing that can create any stupid or less achieving life force is believing in life that one self is "supposed" to "hear" only all good words about them self...

this Albert Einstein as well made reference to many times over, of the sensitive ego hindering the self...

as that with which follow it's sensitive ego, attain a fraction of the happiness possible in life, and get to live out but a fraction of their own potentials.

smiles.

Oh Geez, at least we are back on topic. I just like the quote and point made. If I didn't know better I would think you were picking on me.

Lol, he picks on everyone.

Could be divine re-direction on his part. He is immortal after all

Hey Ben

uh...ya, as u wish Moe :)