I never said it did. I said that I did have heavy GF in the past but I also mentiond the activity diffrences. First off a lot of the activities I love to do 3 mentioned in last post they wouldnt consider as it was all they could do to walk. I wOnce in a relationship I'll take on any challenge that I need to for my Wife, but As I already have to care for a disabled younger brother as well as being the only one left to carry on the family line. These are condiderations I make when Chosing relationships that are going to go further than friends. I want an equal mentally, spiritually, actively etc. I hope this makes sense.

John -- I wasn't trying to offend you, forgive me if you got that impression. Everyone has to make considerations -- mentally and spirituality are very important in any relationship. I agree with you.

Twitch I was trying to explain myself a bit better There is no offense taken in your replies

to that generation, alls i haves to say is

**** you, my daddy's rich too

and so was grandpa

i was the friggen valedictorian

ak0 ROTFLMAO!!! thats funny!!!

and probably uncalled for

lol

but really, who doesn't have a brain that needs acknowledgement


even for those not at the top that heap

Good Nonsequiter Ak0

i think men just want ta-ta and they want it now, no lip from you missy!

and that's cool, fork over the bucks is right if i'm your ho

pay me and i get weeknights free

Hmm I'm sensing a Really Fisty Ak0 - You by chance wouldn't be a natural redhead?
would you?

I like fistyness in a gal. Was raised around 3 generations got used to it I guess

i'm a little auburn when i get enough sun

this is always an interesting thread. when i was young i went for a certain look - in high school....but well then i dated some and found i was attracted to a much wider variety of look...and then i met some just our-of-this-world fabulous women in college and had to throw out the book.

so, attraction comes in all flavors, and sizes and colors,
but it is ultimately the person inside who you really love....


"Evey, please. . .there is a face beneath this mask, but it's not me. I'm no more that face than I am the muscles beneath it, or the bones beneath them."

V - in V for Vendetta

and,

Evey: [reading inscription on mirror] Vi Veri Veniversum Vivus Vici

V: "By the power of truth, I, while living, have conquered the universe."

Evey: Personal motto?

V: From Faust

Evey: That's about trying to cheat the devil, isn't it?

V: It is.

i'm a little auburn when i get enough sun

I dont care what anyone has to say about "appearances dont matter'' etc.....beccause we all know deep down that thats not TRUE at all ....Appearance is the FIRST thing someone LOOKS AT NO MATTER WHAT!! Because there HAS to be EVEN JUST A LITTLE BIT OF physical attraction to the person to have a relationship with them.....and EVERYONE has different tastes!! What might be attractive to ME may not be attractive to the next person but its OKAY! We all have diferent ideas of what is "appealing"..and there is nothing wrong with it..... yah so thats MY 2 cents!!

People tell me I'm built like a pickup truck.

This is a real dilemma because although it is what is on the inside that counts. The attraction and chemistry you have for the person play a big role in a relationship. I think you have to consider the whole person, but .......

as far as chemistry and romantic relationships etc goes, if

beauty is to woman as money is to man..

men should honestly post a number of their net worth instead of a photo

i honestly don't care how handsome you are.. look at bill gates

but he has heart

men want beauty. women want resources. heart separates some from the rest. when do minds connect.

Hawaiigurl you're right -- what's attractive to one isn't for another.

I think the answer to that is chemiostry. If it's there sparks fly farther and brighter than a roman candle if not it can be as cold as a makerel that's been in the freezer for 3 days.