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I love cheating ho's.  
Ho monger....
 
Yeah.....but you wuv me for it. 
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I love cheating ho's.
Ho monger....
Yeah.....but you wuv me for it.
Tis true!...
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I love cheating ho's.
 
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I like Hostess Ho Hos.
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Competing over a man/woman shows me this: there are more than two people involved, each is selfishly trying to win the "so called" prize, someone will win but someone will lose, the trophy will go to the winner.....that is, until the next "game" is played! I'm not a game player so I won't compete for a man's attention! If he puts me in that position, I'm gone for lack of trust in the person and the evidence of a roving eye which is definitely NOT the type of man I would want! Give me a man of character and integrity to himself and to me! JMHO  
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I do see some variables here.I have a hell of a conscience so i could never try to woo a woman away from a man.But if i met her later after they had split,and she told me that she had been thinking of me,that might just be a little different. As far as head on flirting with someone in a relationship to steal them away,might that mean that it was possible for someone else to do that to you further down the line if it proved that the initial break up was due to a fickle nature. Best to stay away if you can,but those damn emotions can get in the way sometimes. 
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I love cheating ho's.
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Edited by
mysticalview21
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Fri 01/09/15 02:40 PM
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no ... I would not compete for a man in a relationship becouse if it is that easy for him to leave her... then it will be just as easy to leave me for another ... nope... I want it all
 or nothing ...
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no ... I would not compete for a man in a relationship becouse if it is that easy for him to leave her... then it will be just as easy to leave me for another ... nope... I want it all or nothing ...
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Women are easily carried away with love and care when you show them these they start comparing you with their man so I think competition is allowed
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Edited by
DavidCommaGeek
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Fri 01/09/15 03:29 PM
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My cutoff for a serious relationship is three dates (very approximately three weeks). In that period of time, it is okay to date multiple people, because you can't know someone well enough to make an informed, committed decision until at least that far in. (And this is no way prevents either party from canceling things later.)
After the third date, though, assuming all parties have been honest enough, you should be able to decide which person you like best. If you can't decide, then you either need to leave both (all) relationships and find someone new, or make a choice and risk the commitment for a little while. Personally, I'm not a very competitive man - I wouldn't "compete" for a woman within those first three dates. I would offer what I have, and promote myself, but I'm not going to bother playing a round of pool, or get in an arm-wrestling contest, or fight to the death for her to see if I can win her affection. If she can't decide between me and another man, then she obviously hasn't chosen me, so I'll go ahead and make the choice for her. After the third date, though, when both parties should be committed, I will defend my date and her honor, but after that point "competing" for her shouldn't be necessary. |
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Women are easily carried away with love and care when you show them these they start comparing you with their man so I think competition is allowed |
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My cutoff for a serious relationship is three dates (very approximately three weeks). In that period of time, it is okay to date multiple people, because you can't know someone well enough to make an informed, committed decision until at least that far in. (And this is no way prevents either party from canceling things later.) After the third date, though, assuming all parties have been honest enough, you should be able to decide which person you like best. If you can't decide, then you either need to leave both (all) relationships and find someone new, or make a choice and risk the commitment for a little while. Personally, I'm not a very competitive man - I wouldn't "compete" for a woman within those first three dates. I would offer what I have, and promote myself, but I'm not going to bother playing a round of pool, or get in an arm-wrestling contest, or fight to the death for her to see if I can win her affection. If she can't decide between me and another man, then she obviously hasn't chosen me, so I'll go ahead and make the choice for her. After the third date, though, when both parties should be committed, I will defend my date and her honor, but after that point "competing" for her shouldn't be necessary. great point there sir,you've enlightened me!!  
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Edited by
davidben1
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Fri 01/09/15 04:00 PM
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Women are easily carried away with love and care when you show them these they start comparing you with their man so I think competition is allowed tru tru... but if they compare you, how many with more than one self r there to compare to... ??? so than... whoever fall into "prey" with one that compares one self to others... god hasten the wise eyes own departure from those who seek but the "best' for it self... 4 will not there always be a better best evolving somewhere someplace... so fo sure it ain't love of a another as the self getters love 2 declare, but rather the love of gettin da best fo one self no matter what the cost to others be the ultimate goal these unloving souls. beware beware, for only the gullible r easily decieved. and the gullible r those who love to hear what they wished for when they were a child. |
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This is why it's good to see other people's point of view,I never looked at it like that,and I gata say,that makes a ton of sense to me,in a sense,it's kinda like interviewing someone for a job, lol
great point there sir,you've enlightened me!!
Don't follow my example TOO closely - I only garnered this bit of wisdom after being played with for more than a year. |
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This is why it's good to see other people's point of view,I never looked at it like that,and I gata say,that makes a ton of sense to me,in a sense,it's kinda like interviewing someone for a job, lol
great point there sir,you've enlightened me!!
Don't follow my example TOO closely - I only garnered this bit of wisdom after being played with for more than a year.
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Edited by
davidben1
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Fri 01/09/15 07:06 PM
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This is why it's good to see other people's point of view,I never looked at it like that,and I gata say,that makes a ton of sense to me,in a sense,it's kinda like interviewing someone for a job, lol
great point there sir,you've enlightened me!!
Don't follow my example TOO closely - I only garnered this bit of wisdom after being played with for more than a year.
some do the same thing over and over and declare them self a winner, and the holy good one, is most situations... the unsane. for they dated a "bad one"... married a "crazy gal"... are these the words of these a wise teacher??? it is only those who earnestly yearn that others need not feel the same pains as them self, who blame all on them self, who are wise teachers in life. and this is few. since most adore them self. so all they them self did. to become what they are. for they think they are MORE special and rare than the 7 billion alive just now. so these, are quite ok with others enduring pains. and deem it, the "way of the path". yea. the path of their own personal stupid blind mistakes. |
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Edited by
no1phD
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Fri 01/09/15 07:02 PM
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yes OP.. I believe what you are talking about ,is called.. kidnapping..lol
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Unfortunately (because of the hoes, not Romeo) I'm with Romeo on this one. Hopeless romantic, I have tried been the KISA and have always been left 1 dagger short of a knife fight. It's the new and disgusting trend among younger 'girls' (pronounced hoes) they are more endowed at younger ages and conditioned not to depend on ONE man for their emotional fulfillment. More women have degrees careers and disposable income and those that don't have no problem getting what they want or need because the next guy is just a tap or mouse click away. Once a guy has worn a hole in his wallet it's on to the next. If the sugar daddy doesn't fit in with the 'in crowd' or isn't fun they text a younger guy to do their bidding. Of course there are statistical rarities out there who are ladies of honorable repute but they are rare indeed. Social media and the wide variety of sites of all types have not only created a means to distribute advertisement but condone and encourage girls women hoes what ever you want to call THEM to replace a broken of outdated toy with a new one faster than ever before. This doesn't include real WOMEN who are respectable LADIES. Of course guys cheat as well, I don't presume that girls do all the cyber slutting. Most 'dating' sites though are marketed towards women in broadcast advertisements. If a site isn't marketed towards women, it showcases women to draw men in. These are broadcast much less and on channels that mostly men would watch and only late at night. Softer advertisements marketed mainly towards women are much more widely distributed among all channels and come up often throughout the day. Before any girls or women slam me for being sexist, these are my observations of events and broadcasting advertisements over which i have no control. Think about it from your own point of view, and then put yourself in a man's place and ask yourself if the same ads would appeal to you. More than likely the answer would be no but as men we have always had to go where the women are. This is so true and exactly how it is. I'm glad others can see it too |
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yes OP.. I believe what you are talking about ,is called.. kidnapping..lol
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