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Topic: She Broke Up When I Told Her No Sex Before Marriage
devildog123 Joined Mon 09/08/14 Posts: 3902	Fri 03/13/15 03:20 AM
What if there are sexual issues after marriage? But anyway.. Maybe the women were picking up on something like a man saying 'no sex before marriage' could mean bad intentions like maybe the guy really meant 'if I ever marry you I will control how much sex you get'. If not then that is sad, because you just want to wait, try saying it in a different way so she doesn't think you mean to control the sex.. I think you hit on very good point. Sex is a part of a normal relationship. And sexual issues would play a role in that relationship.I'm not saying it is a deal breaker.. at all. But these issues should be known before marriage so they can be discussed and addressed. So, I'm with the sex before marriage crowd.

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Fri 03/13/15 03:37 AM
People need sex before, during and after marriage. Marriage is not what defines sex for me, or I would still be a virgin.

STUNKY Joined Tue 11/18/14 Posts: 13	Tue 03/17/15 02:41 PM


Godistheanswer Joined Mon 02/02/15 Posts: 477	Tue 03/17/15 02:45 PM
My boys went through that too, being called bad names, etc because they would not share intimacy they belived should be saved for marriage to someone they wanted to have forever with. Hold onto your vitue and who you are and what you want. I feel the same way exactly and because I do some men say I hate all men, yet most of my friends are guys. I just don't sleep with them.

Godistheanswer Joined Mon 02/02/15 Posts: 477	Tue 03/17/15 02:47 PM
Yet, because I do have male friends, some have said I sleep with them all and made one of my friends so mad he sat down right in front of them and had coffee with me in town. Sometimes people are so grade school they need to grow up and stop trying to push their own way onto someone. Don't let any woman make you feel bad about you. If it is the right woman you will feel desire for her and want to be with her, and not feel pushed.

Godistheanswer Joined Mon 02/02/15 Posts: 477	Tue 03/17/15 02:49 PM
My ex could not make love to me, but loved phone sex and with himself and the toilet paper roll or with men, yet some people, mainly women blamed me for the divorce. I laughed the other day when I saw the new toilet rolls are paper without the rolls.

STUNKY Joined Tue 11/18/14 Posts: 13	Wed 03/18/15 03:12 PM
What happens if both of you discover that you are not sexually compitable after marriage ? Are you goner divorce?? Soon after ... can you buy a car without test driving it? Think about it in reality

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Wed 03/18/15 08:36 PM
Estelle when is the last time you got laid

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Wed 03/18/15 10:41 PM
My ex could not make love to me, but loved phone sex and with himself and the toilet paper roll or with men, yet some people, mainly women blamed me for the divorce. I laughed the other day when I saw the new toilet rolls are paper without the rolls. Must've been something else though if he preferred toilet rolls and phone sex, to the real thing that was in the bedroom?

ionhon Joined Thu 03/19/15 Posts: 1	Thu 03/19/15 01:43 AM
u r right

green407 Joined Fri 09/19/14 Posts: 1563	Thu 03/19/15 05:12 AM
I'm a little confused, what would constitute as sexual incompatibility?

JaSaSam Joined Sun 02/15/15 Posts: 53	Sun 03/22/15 01:39 PM
Well at least they are being true to themselves and what will work for them, this should be appreciated. It's good that you know they aren't on the same page before you guys start something serious and the conflicts arise. I personally couldn't deal with the no sex without marriage so I would be one would back away. Thumbs up for those who can wait or will wait. To each his own.

billaNagaraju Joined Tue 03/24/15 Posts: 2	Tue 03/24/15 01:03 PM
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billaNagaraju Joined Tue 03/24/15 Posts: 2	Tue 03/24/15 01:03 PM
Ya I am full sex boy