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Topic: Inlove with a friend
Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 12/16/14 06:54 PM
Its just like we are happy when we're together and both don't want to lose each other. That's why its kinda hard to decide. Well....easy fix.....cut out the sex, focus on the friendship....problem solved.

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Tue 12/16/14 07:31 PM
Its just like we are happy when we're together and both don't want to lose each other. That's why its kinda hard to decide. Well....easy fix.....cut out the sex, focus on the friendship....problem solved. Exactly... If the 'friendship' ends due to 'no sex'... Oh well.. Live and learn.. shrug

lovealbin Joined Sun 04/29/12 Posts: 40	Tue 12/16/14 10:01 PM
Its just like we are happy when we're together and both don't want to lose each other. That's why its kinda hard to decide. Being friends is so good and being relation without friendship is too bad. But in ur condition u did both. Friendship with relationship. Try to go for relationship

Redbutterfly098 Joined Tue 08/19/14 Posts: 2761	Tue 12/16/14 10:19 PM
Its just like we are happy when we're together and both don't want to lose each other. That's why its kinda hard to decide. You both are playing in the fire. Who will be the looser in the end? Think a 100 times..... Question your self. What am I doing to my self? Hope you find your self on the right way.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Tue 12/16/14 11:08 PM
Its just like we are happy when we're together and both don't want to lose each other. That's why its kinda hard to decide. are you happy or momentarily satisfied? there is a difference. what interests do you have in common besides the physical? you say you don't want to lose each other, yet your original post suggests this is one sided. if you don't want to lose each other what is each one contributing to making this a solid relationship? what do you see happening if you were to conceive a child? will he be there or will he run for the hills? the answers to these and other questions will help you get a better focus on your situation.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Thu 12/18/14 03:43 PM Edited by Awatersign on Thu 12/18/14 03:43 PM
Its just like we are happy when we're together and both don't want to lose each other. That's why its kinda hard to decide. Being friends is so good and being relation without friendship is too bad. But in ur condition u did both. Friendship with relationship. Try to go for relationship This makes perfect sense,the good friendship part is a solid foundation ,they're both screwing,so why not go all out?,I don't think you can get much more compatible than that,great point there man!!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 12/18/14 05:35 PM
Its just like we are happy when we're together and both don't want to lose each other. That's why its kinda hard to decide. Well....easy fix.....cut out the sex, focus on the friendship....problem solved. Exactly... If the 'friendship' ends due to 'no sex'... Oh well.. Live and learn.. shrug Or skip being friends.....continue sex.....bust some nuts.....eh....live and learn.

mysticalview21 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5462	Sat 12/20/14 07:53 AM Edited by mysticalview21 on Sat 12/20/14 07:59 AM
to late op your in love ... want to stay and be with him ... you take as it goes ... and don't put pressure on him becouse he will be gone ... so if u like being with him the way it is ... need to just keep that in mind that he or you may walk away at some point ... and remind your self he does not want to be committed ... and go out with friends & date others ...have fun if you feel like it... dates do not always have to lead to the bedrm ... your call ...