Why is it so hard for Asian men to commit? Why do they just want trophy's? I dont mind if my man wants to show me off but there is more to life than looks.. So tired of hearing..you're so beautiful.. I want a man to like me for me. Are all Asians the same? Cold hearted?

a very simplistic answer is culture differences in how people are raised.

also, in all honesty it's not fair to say all whoever do something or other. there is goid, bad, chauvanism, respect, etc in all groups, cultures and beliefs from all walks of life. many things are a matter of perception.

"Why is it so hard for Asian men to commit?" - Is it not the same for the majority of the "man" population?

"Are all Asians the same? Cold hearted?" - Nope.

I always thought Asian men took good care of their wife and kids...maybe they are a little coldhearted but in the end they seem to be decent family men who don't abandon or neglect their family unlike many blacks, latinos and some whites too..Maybe they just are cold because they focus on their responsibilities so much and not on their own desires as much as other races of men. That is my impression anyway...

I had a baby with a latino guy and he was very warmhearted until it came to being responsible for me and the baby...latino men always run away from their responsibilities even though they seem to be warmhearted, they're only after pleasure in life...not all but many.

I wish there were more guys who tried to balance both..being responsible and being warm..it's not easy but trying is enough, no one can be everything all the time..